Everyday girls are told to keep quiet about the abuse they are subjected to by their husbands. They are told to “be patient” and remain in these abusive marriages. All to not bring “shame on the family.” All to not become “another divorced woman.” It’s sickening. Truly sickening.
‘Āishah (RA) said, “I asked the Messenger of Allah that if I recognize Laylat-ul-Qadr what should I say?
He ﷺ said,
‘Say,
اَللَّهُمَّ اِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
O Allah, You are the Most Forgiving and You love forgiveness so forgive me.’”
[Tirmidhi]
Sometimes overly strict parents feel like they’ve raised good kids but in reality, what they’ve done is raise kids that are just really good at appearing good.