This is a self-created problem. If they weren’t being fundamentally dishonest they wouldn’t get rejected. Stop lying - problem solved. Also, anyone can withdraw consent at any time for any reason or none at all. No one owes anyone anything sexual.
It’s not a dichotomy. In the same way people who aren’t anorexic aren’t “cisorexic”, in the same way people who aren’t schizophrenic aren’t “cisophrenic”, people who aren’t dysphoric aren’t “cis”. Not experiencing a condition is not a condition.
“Cis” men aren’t “better”, they’re male, unlike you, which is an obvious, basic requirement for any gay man. Our sexual orientation is not a tool for you to validate your cosplay.
It’s so convenient that trans-identified people can reject other trans-identified people and it’s perfectly fine, but the rest of us are transphobic bigots.
Science is based on facts, not deliberate attempts to distort data due to entitlement-based demands for “balance”. Just because you can’t accept reality doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with everyone else.
Sex/dating is discriminatory and exclusionary by its nature, which is fine because sex is not a right.
Not wanting to date someone for ANY reason - yes, including trans - or none at all is perfectly acceptable. No is a complete answer. Why is none of your business.
There is no such thing as “cis” because there is no such thing as “gender identity”. It’s a baseless belief, like a religious belief. Believe whatever you want, but it stops with you. You have no right to force others to accept your nonsensical personal indulgences.
There’s nothing to compromise on here. It’s not a “compromise” to make the absurd suggestion that someone male is a woman. It’s nonsense, flat out. Any thinking person would reject that immediately.
I’m glad they didn’t. Those land acknowledgments are the worst. If you actually believe you’re basically squatting on someone else’s land and you bleat about it but then YOU STAY ANYWAY isn’t that worse? So ridiculous.