You are being disrespectful to zulus in SA simply by using their name like that. Cease and desist. Perhaps you need to first learn what respect is first before you claim association to the Zulu culture
Then stop using their name. You have all the creativity in the world to call it whatever you want. Stop using their name. "Zulu " belongs to 1 tribe in Africa. No one else in the world
She's 30 bro. You do realize that university doesn't mean you are 17-23. What do you mean date her peers. At 30 her peers are polo drivers and sometimes BMW if they are lucky