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Dr.N
@Nenabekee
Ghostwriting, Screenwriting, Child fiction, Script Consulting, Parenting coaching and Movie production when I'm not on Mummy duties ๐Ÿ˜‘
Joined December 2012
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    Fair warning...the gbogbo in this story can cause global warming ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ youtu.be/zFlPj718jmg?siโ€ฆ
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    Men are scum??? Dear Sis-in-Christ Two months ago, I woke up with serious abdominal pains. I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. 1st Gynae said, let's try to handle this medically. I was admitted and given medication. By Day 3, it was obvious it wasn't working.
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    I had been married about 1 year when we moved to Lagos. I was yet to get a new job and I had a baby so I was spending quite a bit of time at home. One day, I remembered that "they" said you should get dressed up when your husband is coming home so that they will not be tempted
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    My mother-in-law is the answer to the prayer I prayed as a little girl. I genuinely love her and she knows it. We can't speak each other's language but she gets me. She called to ask if I want "okpei" added to stuff she's sending to me. I said I don't use it. She says but
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    Children younger than 16 do not need smartphones or access to social media in my humble opinion. Get them laptops for school work & research. Set up Google family link, Net Nanny or other protective soft ware. Devices must be used in full view of everyone. Check sites visited
    My niece committed suicide this week. She was only 14. She was targeted by a pedophile ring on TikTok, and and groomed. Sent them pics etc. Her mom found out when Homeland security showed up at the door a couple of months ago. (They didn't tell the rest of the family) The
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    If you just got married or you have kids < 3 yrs I will share a good strategy you can use to make them passionate about the bible. This is the age when kids are exposed to video games, cartoons, you tube sing alongs in order for parents to buy time for chores and work or Biz.
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    Replying to @Nenabekee
    Pastor or Deacon. He simply needs to share your passion & devotion for God and be able to inspire same in any children you will eventually have. I do not share this to denigrate the men are scum movement; they are fulfilling purpose. I just wanted to give you a diff view. Selah
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    I share these stories to set a few people free. The thing no too hard like that. E calm down. Single sis, reading sad stories and shouting "God forbid!" No be like that. No be everybody dey ask for freshly-cooked seafood okro and pounded yam every morning.
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    One of the best pieces of advice I ever got about marriage was from Mrs.R. When you marry a man who has been your friend for years, esp one who is a good listener, you naturally assume that you can dump on him all the time. After you get married,the temptation is to focus on him
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    They denied there was any abduction of Chibok girls. When pictures were provided they said they looked too old for Secondary sch. When their parents came forward they said they were actors. Some of the girls escaped, they said they were a diff set. This basket of lies! Na dem!
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    Every family needs a mission statement. All the children should know it. It should guide parenting decisions and frame conversations about identity. One of the things my family aims for is to raise independent adults who are self-disciplined, brilliant and entrepreneurial.
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    A few advantages of delaying age of access to smartphones. 1. Eye contact. Your kids will learn to look people in the eye during conversations. 2. Situational Awareness. Smartphones make kids zone out, impervious to danger and indifferent to interesting happenings around them.
    Some people feel like I'm being overprotective by not allowing my daughter use a phone until she's 17 โ€” Bisola Aiyeola
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    Years ago, one of my children in primary 1 came home rejoicing. He scored 100% in a particular test. He proudly announced that he had failed only one question so the subject teacher called him aside privately, told him the correct answer and upgraded his score. I was livid!
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    Into the men are scum movement and sabotaged themselves. It is not your duty to do all the spiritual heavy lifting while the man runs amok. If you set this standard you will find that there are men who pray, do the word and actually lead by godly example. He doesn't have to be a