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Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realise how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards the narcissist that harmed, misled, took advantage, and abused you!
The_Narc_Decoder
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The_Narc_Decoder
@NarcDecoder
Everything I was afraid of happening, happened. 🌟 💕 Healing was a lonely journey. Let's heal together 🙏🏽 🫂
Author of The Scapegoat Child — August 2026📚
- Narcissists single out people with trauma and abandonment wounds and then emotionally abuse them until they snap. Then they accuse them of madness and play the victim, so others bully and blame them too.
- If you need help leaving someone, keep a detailed journal of how they treat you each time, then go back and read it. I promise you, you'll be disgusted.
- If you survived a narcissist with a victim complex, you can survive anything..
- A narcissist's priority isn't to be a good person, it's to be seen as one. Their image matters more than their actions.
- People with the biggest hearts attract the most draining, disloyal, disrespectful, and difficult people!
- Narcissists are not sick. They are evil. They are selfish. They are liars. They manipulate you to serve their interests. Don't ever give them a second chance. They will never change. Sounds harsh and dramatic, I know, but the way they will destroy your life is even harsher 💯
- Narcissists apologize to reset the cycle, not to change.
- To make a narcissist suffer, you don't need to harm them directly. Instead, focus on yourself. Rebuild the person you were before & become even better. Narcissists thrive on control and breaking you down, but nothing frustrates them more than seeing you happy, successful, and
- When you're in a relationship with a narcissist, there is ALWAYS a whole secret life going on behind your back.
- The Narcissist........ "I am going to make it impossible for you to succeed by causing you so much stress that you end up in survival mode and only have the ability to just get by." "Then I am going to berate you for not being able to succeed or fulfil your goals."
- Just In Case Somebody Needs To Hear This: DONT BE AFRAID TO LEAVE THAT NARCISSIST AND START OVER 💯
- A narcissist makes you sad when it's your birthday because they secretly HATE you!
- Opening up to a narcissist is like talking to the police 🚔 Anything you say can and will be used against you 😆 🤣 😂