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Ms Jadis Ives
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Ms Jadis Ives
@MsJadis
🔥The Empress Elemental 🔥Sadist & Sovereign🔥🪞
Want to know more? Google me✨
Sydney, Australia
Born April 20
Joined April 2009
- Your subs actually NEED your enjoyment of and passion for dominating them. A lack in that department makes for an unsatisfying experience for everyone involved.
- My role is to: ✨inspire ✨intensify and of course ✨revel in✨ control and devotion.🙇♀️
- One of the benefits of sessioning with a ProDomme is that it can provide a clean container for your D/s desires that does not impact the rest of your life.
- In D/s, punishment can be used for closure. When there's been a lapse or disobedience and it's been noted and discussed, punishment can be a valuable step to finalise the matter and move on.
- Having a safeword in place doesn't remove your responsibility as a Dominant to monitor your submissive and their reactions.
- Part of a ProDommes skillset is being able to eyeball an activity request and determine if and how it can be safely brought to life in the dungeon. Some requests are simply not safe, and it’s our job to say no. In some cases, you may be able to modify aspects of the request to
- Within the bounds of consent (of course). Your Domme will run your D/s relationship as SHE wants it. That may not be exactly as you want it...and that’s kind of the point.🔒
- Thank your sub when they safeword. You want them to feel safe to use this vital tool. They are giving you valuable information.
- Want to genuinely serve? You need to be a student of your Dommes' likes, dislikes and needs.
- When your Mistress creates rules or sets boundaries, sometimes the reasons will be clear. At other times, the rationale will be known only to her. Remember that your obedience to her is a goal in itself.
- A little talked about, but unfortunately not uncommon, D/s pitfall is subs throwing themselves into heavy D/s relationships to escape reality and evade responsibility for their own behaviours. It never works out. A good Domme can provide support and structure, but addiction, an
- subs are grown adults, NOT children. They also bear responsibility for the success or failure of a D/s relationship.
