I have a friend who has legit been my friend since high school that I speak to sporadically. We never pressure each other to link and go MONTHS without seeing each other but when we actually do catch up it’s all good vibes, and fun memories. Adult friendships are good.
Can’t make plans with men too far in advance, because the odds of them pissing you off before you even get the chance to follow through with the plans is far too great