PSA:
Never feel ashamed of saying RED! In My scenes, I will never be ashamed of you, disappointed or have My good time ruined.
I want you to be safe. I want you to have a good time. I want you to trust that I will pull you out if you say your safe word.
Domina Juniper Dolor | SF Bay Area
3,440 posts
The Art of Pain & Surrender ✦ For More ~ Find Me on Bluesky
Joined August 2019
- Nothing riles Me up more than a genuinely submissive, service-oriented, ready to worship the ground you walk on, obsessed with the idea of sacrificing their flesh to you, queer hottie.
- Sex is cool but have you ever had a new potential client fill out Your application so thoroughly & thoughtfully, screen, send deposit, reference details on Your website, bring a small gift & follow all of Your instructions to a T to where You thought 'Damn this one is TRAINED" 💯
- One of the best ways to contribute to My session aftercare/decompression is to send a thoughtful reflection email within 1-3 days. Tell Me how you felt, what worked, what didn't work, if there were any new discoveries and curiosities.
- The way a new applicant will read your entire website, look through your socials, know what you want and what you love, will follow every instruction and get every detail right the first time really just leaves Me happy, relaxed and excited to add them to My play life.
- sub task: Take time to do some research into the service you would like to provide your Domme. Want to give massage? Watch some youtube vids etc for technique. Want to condition leather? Read up on proper leather treatment. Latex care, car detailing, gardening...bring skills! 📝
- At the end of the day I just want to scare you and I want you to be horny for that. Do you understand what I mean?
- subs ~ Do be mindful when you say that I "own you." If I have not seen you in over a year and you don't send flowers, coffees, or birthday gifts, then I certainly do not own you. It is ok to identify with 'i submit to Domina Dolor' but you are not Mine unless you show it.
- How are you showing up for your Domina today? Are you making sure Her bills are paid? Getting Her chores done for the week? Gaining skills to be more useful for Her? Reflecting on what truly brings ease, relaxation, success & pleasure to Her w/o your own kinks incorporated?

