Confrontation really is the greatest path to connection and everyone avoids it bc they don’t wanna own the part about themselves they dislike lol. Cause that’s really what it is.
People are only special to you because of your imagination tbh. You made all that up lol. Just like you created that image, you can easily dismantle it by accepting what you see in front of you.
The thing about male vulnerability is they foolishly believe it means crying about your problems to women when it’s really just being honest about who you are and how you feel about things in real time.
You guys are entering your 30s and some of you late 30s and 40s. It’s time to read something other than ppls thoughts all day and learn about human dynamics cause the way you navigate the world is childlike at best.
Walking away fixes everything. There’s nothing you’ll do that’ll ever be more powerful than that. A convo is just giving them another chance to bullshit you lol
Mistreating ppl and causing significant harm to them in your adult life is definitely a permanent stain on your character whether you’d like to see it that way or not, which is why it’s imperative you always move honorably. Consequences too dire.
I don’t speak badly about ppl I once knew that I loved, but I will be honest about the experience. And if that bothers them then maybe they shoulda been more honorable toward me.