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If a man is rich, “we shouldn’t expect a successful man to do those chores haba”
But when a woman is rich, “she must be careful that the money doesn’t get into her head, and she’ll forget her place”
so if a man works, he’s suddenly ‘too tired’ to do chores, but when a woman works, she’s still supposed to cook, clean, and handle everything else? why? how does that add up?
So your aged mother should go back to him just because he needs someone to handle his chores?
When she needed him to be a good husband, he left her and frolicked around, but your mother needs to be brought back for a lifetime of servitude because?
How come the father can’t
The issue with this thing I have realized, is actually men
Because once a woman is giving birth, her friends would be thinking of how to support her.
The man’s friends on the other hand, want to go and sit at the bar and wait for when he can finish running around to tell them
This is very insensitive. One doesn’t have to invalidate the other. They can both coexist. It doesn’t take away from the pains and sacrifices women make during pregnancy and childbirth. We don’t have to compare them. They both need help during that period of their lives
We have
Let me share a story
A man was rushed to A&E by his wife
Time to take the history, something was just off. He was very hesitant to speak
The wife kept shouting “talk now, what happened to you? Answer, the doctor is asking you”
With a muffled voice, he said he had fallen down
This lady told me that her ex husband hit her in the face once. She didn't react, just went about her day. Cooked, cleaned.
He fell asleep and she hit him with a bat. Lol
“Widows are not single mothers
Nobody treats widows badly” 🤡
The patriarchy that wants every woman to bring a man forward to exist in this world will not care if yours d!ed or ran away
The patriarchal systems that men created exist only for the oppression of women
Men want
I remember when they would send messages to Chimamanda’s husband everytime to “tame her”
They called that one simp everyday because “he failed to make her change her surname”
They kept reminding him that they’d be here when “he learns”
Meanwhile it’s them and their bad
Add that they look away when they see boys slandering women, but suddenly find their voices when women address it
They want to control how women respond to abuse, but not the men perpetrating the abuse because they need abusive men to exist so they can appear like angels, just
Women are angry about rape, domestic violence, abuse, femicide, sexual harassment and discrimination. Men are angry that women are speaking up about these things in “impolite ways” on the internet. You people will come and try and false equivalence the two. It is well. Say na mob
I would be too
4 random men and only mine speaks like he left his partner at home 😂
I would be so proud of myself for being able to attract and choose a truly high value man, one that upholds his exemplary virtues, no matter where he finds himself
That level of
This is why I laugh when women join men to push the narrative that women make terrible bosses
Do you know what a woman has to go through to command the respect and loyalty a male boss would automatically get?
You have to spell it out that you don’t take nonsense and mean it, and
BTW this is the reason why bolt/uber etc drivers always have problems with only women.
Not because women are problematic, but the because the idea of driving a woman (that they believe they’re better than) offends a lot of them.
She actually might be dodging a de@dbeat
They are usually apologists playing advocates for the ones that have fully evolved, while they are hoping to evolve 😂