I wish I could give her a hug after this. The way they dismissed her trauma and changed the topic so quickly was so uncalled for. Why is it so hard for y’all to show women especially, black women compassion?
The more I learn about avoidant attached people the more I feel bad for them. Imagine having so much to say to someone you love, yet no way to say it because vulnerability and intimacy don’t feel safe.
The older I get the more I realize men aren’t that complicated. They either like you or they don’t. When they like you, you will know. If they don’t you will be confused. Doesn’t matter how deep that connection is or feels move on anyway.