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HomeGirlsUnite
@HomeGirlsUnite
Support group for eldest daughters by eldest daughters✨ 📧 : [email protected]
London & International
Joined June 2018
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    Over the years we’ve had to extend the definition to cater for home girls who relate but do not fit the conventional first born status. If you feel our organisation caters to your needs, please join us. Whether you’re the first, middle, last born or an only child. ✨
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    Hoping that every eldest daughter meets a mr “sit down”.
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    Eldest daughters, may the money your family thinks you have reach your account tenfold.
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    We asked eldest daughters if their 'eldest daughter strengths' were really strengths or trauma responses? Here are some responses below.
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    Happy Women’s Day to all the eldest daughters. You are seen, you are loved, you are enough. 💗
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    Happy Eldest Daughter Day to all the amazing eldest daughters! Remember, it’s the perfect day to ask for money. 💕
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    We asked eldest daughters why conflict with parents often increases when they reach financial independence. Below are some of their answers. Some can be triggering, proceed with caution.
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    Dear eldest daughters, happy international women’s day. You are doing amazing ✨
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    Tomorrow is August 26th, which means it’s Eldest Daughter’s Day. This is your reminder to send an eldest daughter some money.
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    Eldest daughters, Happy Mother’s Day! You carry society on your backs. Do less today.
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    We asked eldest daughters for tips on how we can reject/distance ourselves from the eldest daughter role. Here are some of their tips and advice.
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    Replying to @HomeGirlsUnite
    1.“As an adult I now know ‘being mature for your age’ and resilient is definitely not the compliment I thought it was. I had to hold a lot of things together while the adults in my life left me to my devices. I also don’t know how to ask for help. That’s not a strength for me”
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    Eldest daughter reminder: Not everything needs to be managed, fixed, or explained by you. Let silence be your boundary sometimes — not every role is yours to fill, and not every silence is yours to break.
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    Dear eldest daughter, if you stop, the world won’t fall apart 💖