You don’t have to adopt every ideology. Read about it, understand it or not then move on. It isn’t necessary either to deem it wrong or right. That’s what true open mindedness is about.
My grandma just called to confirm if I’m still coming home. She said she bought rice, baked beans, mayonnaise, tin fish and will go look for a pumpkin on Monday so I shouldn’t buy those 🥺 if only she knew that this Christmas we will eat like we mean business for the first time.
Just made the hardest decision ever but it was also an easy one. I stopped looking for apartments & I’m moving back to Katlehong. With my mom being unemployed, I feel I will better take care of her, my siblings and me without rent. I’ve been struggling for months because of that.
Someone complemented my skin saying it looks beautiful. I can afford sunscreen phela manje 🤭 my hair is flourishing too, my afro looks so pretty. This is why you should never let anyone tell you money is not important. Affordability enhances your life quality. Money is important
I’m starting ko Woolworths food before heading to Zeerust, we having gammon and other fancy things this year 🤭 she won’t know what hit her 😂. I’m also getting us cake ya ko Château Gâteaux. I’m super excited 😊 can’t wait to cook her delicious food.
Education set me free. Literally. I remember when my ex mom and them would go out to a mall, leave me behind to clean then come back to eat McDonald’s in front of me while saying I am useless and deserve nix. Why didn’t they sit in? Smh anyway now here I am. Free in my own home🤭
To conclude the topic of step kids, it hurts during the growing up phase because you need your parents for survival and everytime you’re treated somewhat you know you have 30 minutes to wrap up okokuqumba.
Siyaphangela now so singabathuka 😂
I’ll always advocate for imfundo.
Nna I say do not be closed off to the idea of a different race. Black women ke bua le lona. Don’t limit yourself. Leave the naysayers. I experienced care, effort and consideration for the first time ever (romantically) because of an Afrikaans man. He reminded me I am human too.
I’ve decided I’m taking a break from applying for work. Applying and not getting any responses too can be a bit hurtful, sad and tiring. I’m just going to catch up on my favourite series on Netflix since someone gave me their details and told me to distress . Distress I will 😌
My little Brother and Sister’s birthday was in February (they’re twins). I didn’t get them cake because funds were low. They were chilled about it kante little did they know gore their gift is them boarding a plane and making it to the ocean for the first time ever 🤭
I am so happy ke Motswana. The men at home know to help out and ease the pressure. They are always thoughtful and kind and are able to reprimand one another. The only exception is usually if you’re elderly or a child otherwise we work very well together and that is beautiful 💛
My little brother and I are going to Mall of the South. We are going to cut our hair ko Legends Barbershop because he always wanted to go. We are then going to eat burgers ko RocaMamas then we are going to come back with dry lips and empty hands as if nothing happened 🥹💛
It’s probably because they do not share the same sets of belief system as you. Also don’t fear, respect. It’s hard to adore what you fear. The basis of African spirituality is fearlessness. It is the only way to open your heart and to be open minded.