if you’ve dated soft men or actual lover boys before, you would never go for the commanders in chief of the armed forces a.k.a “hard guys” ever again or the emotionally unavailable ones.
Cooking for man is sweet sha, you’re wearing his oversized designer shirt and slide with no panties on, asking “baby poundo or semo” after making that egusi or efo riro soup with a big smile on your face.
Dating or marrying a partner who is kind to you cannot be overemphasized, your partner can have money and not be kind to you. They’ll comfortably see you struggle and not be bothered.