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Whitney Dafoe
@DafoeWhitney
Severe ME/CFS patient and advocate. Sick since 2004, bedridden since 2013. Never. Giving. Up. ✊ Useful info for ME/CFS and Long Covid patients in bio link.
Stanford, CA
Joined December 2019
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    ✏️ My ME/CFS Blog: whitneydafoe.com/mecfs ❓What is ME/CFS? whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/whatisme… 👤 My Story: whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/mystory 📄 ME/CFS Resources: whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/resource… 🙏 Donate to ME/CFS Research: whitneydafoe.com/donate ⤵️ Useful Document Downloads whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/download… 🖼️ My
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    No one who hasn't experienced chronic illness will understand the devastating grief of letting go of another day of your life. When you try to be active whatever that means for you and you realize you just can't do it today, that you have to let the day go and hope for tomorrow.
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    New Severity Scale for ME/CFS I wrote this new severity scale for ME/CFS about 2 years ago.  I really wanted to express how severe the illness can actually get which is not at all reflected in our current mild-moderate-severe-v.severe scale.  And I wanted to make it more
    I wrote this new severity scale for ME/CFS about 2 years ago.  I really wanted to express how severe the illness can actually get which is not at all reflected in our current mild-moderate-severe-v.severe scale.  And I wanted to make it more accurate to our lives.  It’s not perfect, I know, mostly because every ME/CFS patient is so different.
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    It’s ok that I accomplished nothing today but roll over in bed. It’s ok. I am not what I achieve or produce. I am the same person on a good day when I create works of beauty as I am on a day when I lay in desolate slumber. No matter what I do or achieve I am always glorious.
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    When someone questions the legitimacy of your illness, it is a reflection of them, not you. it is them not being able to accept the fact that bad things do indeed happen to good people, and that they too could fall sick to an illness with no cure or treatments. #MECFS
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    Happy Birthday Ron Davis! Happy Birthday to my father! The most dedicated ME/CFS researcher in the world, who will stop at nothing until he finds a cause, diagnostic and a cure for us all. And the most caring, loving, kind father I could ever imagine. 1/4
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    I started eating real food again in 2024!…I have now stopped the Peptamen food formula completely, and get all my calories from real food!...And I want to tell you because I want you to hear this story!...what will 2025 bring? #MECFS New post on my blog:
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    I can’t wait for the day there is a diagnostic test and we stop having to listen to "recovery stories" from people who had "fatigue".
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    It constantly amazes me that no matter how much "healthy stuff" I give myself, it has no affect on ME/CFS. I take a million supplements that "should" help my body. But it’s like throwing confetti at a brick wall. The party never reaches the other side. #MECFS
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    I have a severe iron deficiency. There is a nationwide shortage of the one brand of iron infusions my insurance will cover. They won't cover the other brand. That brand costs $1800 per infusion. In Germany, an iron infusion costs €8. WTF is wrong with this country? #MECFS
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    ME/CFS on the front page of the SF Chronicle! #MECFS
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    I've been bedridden for 12 years. Last night I dreamt of running for the first time. And not just running, but running in a race and barely missing first place. My legs moving, muscles firing. The ground under my feet. The wind and sweat on my face. It was glorious. #MECFS
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    I want to wake up feeling refreshed and inspired. I want to feel excited about a project. I want to then sit down and work on it until it's finished. No pacing, breaks, PEM, months of crashing delaying things, brain fog. Just ideas and action like the good old days. #MECFS
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    Everyday upon awaking with ME/CFS, it is a battle to find the energy, motivation and sense of purpose to get up and start another day of desolation; To re-find those shattered bits of life amongst the wreckage. It is a battle we must fight every single day. #MECFS