for someone who has isolation as their coping mechanism, i hope you find a lover who understands your silence. life’s already hard, be with someone who makes living easier.
A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one, because it won’t let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: show up, communicate, grow. That’s why real love scares people more than chaos ever could.
get you a partner that doesn't mind hurting people's feelings when it comes to you. imma say it again. GET U A PARTNER THAT DOESN'T MIND HURTING PEOPLE'S FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU.
breakups hurt. you know what really hurts? trying to "make it work” with someone who has proven to you time and time again that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. that hurts
when a man is unhappy with himself, he'll project that onto the woman who tries to love him. he will ruin a woman's happiness cause he can't find his own.