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About Zardrania
I am an African-American super-sized BBW(Big Beautiful Woman) plush, tall, shapely, attractive) Lifestyle Dominant. I am looking for the last male I will ever have to train. I desire a true submissive, 35-55, at least 5'11" tall, slim-medium or athletic in build, in good overall health, and drama free... to mold into my personal life-long slave.
READ my ENTIRE profile BEFORE you attempt contact!
I am only interested in communicating with a sincere, honest, true submissive that understands fully that I am ONLY searching for one to mold into my forever slave.
I am NOT a cyber or phone or pro Domme. Should we get to a point where I allow you to meet me... you must come to visit me here in Western NY first. I have no interest in casual play. I have NO DESIRE to have a lengthy long distance situation.
I will NOT go on and on with explicit details of training and such. I will not help your silly ass wank!
Initially, I will discuss likes and dislikes of certain D/s situations in a purely clinical fashion only. Should I care to proceed with you I will give you examples of what a typical day would be like with me if I owned you. I would require to learn more of you including things not directly related to D/s and BDSM.
I desire a D/s situation that has many levels. I believe that some elements of love, romance, sensuality and fun can thrive in a D/s situation. D/s will be a constant thread throughout it all. you will know exactly who your Queen is and that she rules over you. I desire true bliss with a strong D/s twist.
I enjoy making you ache for me but I am NOT an extreme sadist... so, if you are an extreme total pain slut, MOVE ON.
I am a loving Dominant, but quite strict and firm. I will start with what I do NOT do: kids, animals, scat, bloodletting, severe bruising/scaring, or share you sexually at all.
I love to play with my new pet(should you be that damned lucky)... this would include cbt, spankings, bondage, candle wax, orgasm control, intense teasing, chastity, creative humiliation, forced fem(if you are not a sissy already), age play and so on. you will worship, serve, pamper, obey and amuse me as I desire. you will serve me from household chores to enduring whatever I direct, even if only for my amusement and entertainment. you will live to enhance my realm and be the instrument I use to procure my continued happiness. I am rather open minded and very imaginative. I love to plan and add things so that our D/s situation keeps fresh and exciting.
As I said, I am a BBW(BIG Beautiful Woman), I only prefer males that are attracted to the larger, shapely form of an attractive, well groomed Goddess. I will share photos with you when I feel you have shown adequate devotion.
you MUST be intelligent,witty, financially stable, sane, D&D Free, and straight. This situation will cover many levels within a strong D/s framework that will be a constant throughout. I want someone that I enjoy whether we are going to a concert, out to dinner or a museum... or we are spending that afternoon playing with new BDSM toys... or I am training you to serve your Queen and endure whatever I chose to put you through. I will take the time to find out things about you... and you should show an interest in me that covers more than my favorite thing to whip your silly ass with.
I am intelligent with great communication and training skills. I enjoy day adventures, museums, galleries, writing prose and poetry(even BBW D/s erotica), shopping, reading, movies, sci-fi, nearly anything near the shore, trivia, cooking/entertaining, antique fairs and more. I love music... classic and alternative rock, some vintage R&B, a dash of blues/jazz and some classical(Bach is a fav). I have a young spirit despite my age.
If you are far away, please note... I will tire of you quickly if you don't become a real element in my realm and are open enough to close that distance gap if I decide we should do so.
I have a low tolerance for bullshit. Don't waste my time. Be open and honest ALL of the time.
Make no mistake: I WILL USE you to enhance my realm and maintain my total happiness!
If you understand this you may contact me. Do your best to impress! Those one line notes will most likely be ignored! Come CORRECT or don't come at all! PLEASE ME! |
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*giggle* A fellow had written to me, asking if it was hard going for a forever situation.
I believe that going at something with a purpose is a bit easier than not knowing where you are going at all. I want the males that approach to know that I am NOT looking for simple play time or to train an endless line of males looking to add notches to their D/s training post.
I try to get a "feel" for him in all exchanges. So, prospective slaves... put your best foot forward!!! Our initial communication should flow well. I should be interested in hearing from you again. you should be interesting and a bit entertaining.
It should go a bit as follows: initial inquiry, a couple of E-mail exchanges/Q&A, maybe a tiny bit of chat then on to some phone conversations. This will be followed by an initial meet.
At the initial meet, I will look for good chemistry between us. Yes, this can all be quite a chore, but I suspect that if I come across the one that should be mine... it won't feel like a chore at all. http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0011.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> |
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you MUST be intelligent, witty, independant, mature, sensual, and baggage FREE! you MUST have CONTROL of your life... or how can you expect to surrender that control to anyone else!!? I enjoy sissy males but will consider taking a male that is not one. |
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Thought I would say something nice this time. *giggle* A couple of the males in here seem quite nice. They have been well mannered in their approach and seem both intelligent and witty. Some of these are too far away, married, too young or some such. *sigh* What a pity. I am aware that some of you are at wits end with this as I am... BUT... I still expect your very best approach, no matter how many players you have encountered.
Believe me, I am finding it very hard to be objective and open, but I do it. |
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The drama continues... I think things will go along better if folks would define what they are and what they want to themselves FIRST. It seems many males are a bit confused about what belonging to a Femdom really is. Well, it is certainly more than a couple hours of play that you happen to enjoy! Do some serious thinking. Don't say you are trying to find a long-term D/s situation when all you really want is random play sessions. There are Dominants into casual play too, and I am sure you all know you can go buy the sessions you need. But what you need to do is simply avoid wasting the time of lifestyle Dominants that really could care less about catering to your silly ass. So, while there is nothing wrong with exploring and playing... both of you should know what the situation is. I know it is very hard to find REAL, honest, sane, experienced folks. Yes, casual players are people too... LOL, just go play somewhere else, k? |
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WTF!? I really can't believe the amount of male dumb asses that claim to be submissive and have no clue about what that even means!
Also, if you only need to confess your kink, MOVE ON! Hey if you haven't accepted the fact that you love to be pissed on or love having your Dommie dress you in pretty things, and so on, I don't know what to tell you. But, I suggest you call a phone sex line or someone who cares... and leave me out of it.
I love D/s... I embrace it. I like learning more, and finding new things to love about it. I am appalled by the low-life that don't embrace D/s and seek only to waste folks time.
Let's put all the pretenders, liars, and time wasters in a box together so they can drive each other nuts. LOL |
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Just when I think that I have heard and seen it all... something wild this way comes. LOL I will never stop being amazed at the amount of sub trolls one must climb over to get to any with a dash of worth. I was once excited about the net and the possibilites of easily finding like-minded individuals to meet and get to know. But, now I see that while there are some serious lifestylers out there, most are just playing in the net. *sigh* Calgon take me away. I have made my profile long and detailed, in hopes of having most asps to pass on by. No such luck! Let me repeat... I want a only a HONEST, SINCERE, TRUE sub' male to mold into my personal slave and bring close to me in D/s bliss. GOT IT? GOOD! *wink* |
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