Hi,
Just found this site. Looking for new friends in the BDSM world. To start with just to chat with and learn new stuff but hopefully to find a BDSM relationship with a Master or Mistress or Switch. I would also like to chat to other female subs about their experiences. I am looking to make new friends and chat with anyone in the UK or abroad with the same interests as me...
New:
I am getting inundated with mails from single men. Please note I am not interested unless:
1) You have a female you also know is interested, and have evidence of this
2) You want to talk to me about self bondage and you know what you are talking about, see below... I am acting out a scene someone has mailed me today so if you have any more, let me know!
3) You have some other kind offer for me such as a photo shoot or you want to send me money or buy me things etc.
For those who this does not concern, sorry for wasting your time reading this, but it really would mean that I could actually get the chance to read your mail...
As promised, some more about me:
How I got here: Growing up I always had a fascination with being tied or confined to a space or locked into places. I dont remember how it started but in my teens this started to have sexual feeling attached to the feelings. I started to experiment tying myself up and found a lot of enjoyment from it!
When I discovered the internet it was a bit of a revelation because I found that there was a thing called bondage and I wasnt a 'one off' as there were other people who enjoyed the same kind of thing! I also found information about Self-bondage and the tricks and methods involved. I have practiced these for a few years now and have got together a box of toys to help me get myself tied up as well as struggle to get out when I needed.
From there, from an idea from the net, I started to become more daring. A short walk from me there is a wooded area with paths inside surrounded by houses. I started by getting there and undressing down to a bikini (at night of course) and seeing how far along the paths I could dare myself to go before I ran back. I found the excitement greater than before as there was really no way to get myself out of the situation, and thee was a chance I would get seen! Although people wear bikinis at the beach, being found wandering around at night would be quite embarrassing!
From there, each time the dare increased in excitement, to wearing a bra and thong, to then going completely naked. For those who have never felt the cool night air tingle all over I would certainly recommend it! After this, using ideas from the self bondage sites I have increased and increased to where I now hide a bag of goodies earlier in the day at the other end of the path. I start in the usual spot, get undressed, leaving my keys in the pocket, then walking/running naked to by stuff at the other end of the wood. The most extreme I have taken things is whilst I was naked I padlocked a length of chain around my waist in between my legs, holding in two buzzing vibrators. I clipped two nipple clips to me with small weights attahed by elastic bands so that they would pull and bounce with every move. I then put a hood I made for myself with eyeholes and locked it on with a padlock chain around my neck (I started to do this in case I was seen, but it adds to the excitement!). Finally I cuff my hands behind my back to the chain at the small of by back. Then a walk/run back to my clothes where I can unlock myself and get dressed again.
I have never been caught, but I have been seen by someone walking their dog about 50 metres away. Needless to say, I ran! Even though the pain from the bouncing clamps was insane!
My sexuality and experience: I have always had heterosexual and vanilla relationships. I number of times we have played basic bondage games with me tied and submissive but I have always had the felling that I wanted something more. I have had a couple of sexual experiences with girls, which is something I would certainly look forward to in the future. Thus I would call myself bisexual. I have also been dominant at times, and although I will have that side to me it will always be underneath so I am not quite a switch. I would however we willing to try out that side of me with the right female sub and something which can only aid in my experience.
What I am looking for: I would like to get some new friends from here and hopefully some play buddies or a D/s relationship with a Mistress, Switch or couple. I have been inundated by messages form single doms, so please do not write unless you have something incredibly interesting to say, or know a female we will play with... And, have photographic evidence that they exist... Alternatively if you are a superior Dom who is extremely rich and is quite happy to pay me a lot of money to be a live in slave then please, please, PLEASE I am really not interested.
It would be great to hear from anyone who would be interested in chatting or meeting me in the future, please have a picture and write more than a line, otherwise it really isnt a great show of the effort you would put in in the future! If anyone who is also interested in self-bondage has any more information, websites or even to share their experiences that would also be great!
So go on, message me!!
z xxx
