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To make things easier for those who send friend requests: If we haven't met before or we haven't spoken online and you don’t mail me first, your request will be rejected without notice.

For those that think I have "seeking dominant" or "seeking submissive" written on my forehead. Don't bother. Goodbye. I’m looking for fun people here to make friends.

If that shoe doesn't fit... please come further. I hope you'll enjoy your stay.

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From time to time, dusting off a profile is just the thing to do. Mine has been collecting some cobwebs, so here goes...

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Nearly three years back a colleague held a mirror in front of my face and I found a lot of unlabeled things that fit in the BDSM box. So I went looking at those labels. Creative as I am, Shibari first caught my eye when I browsed the net. From there looking at BDSM in a wider angle was just a small step. So there I went, a young blond woman discovering a part of myself that I've 'missed' in the 32 years my life had counted. A side that I never expected to find. Losing lots of misconceptions about what I thought BDSM was. Learning it was so much more than I originally thought.

In the summer of 2009 my journey started as Blond4real. A name that didn't fit me very well after all. So it changed. As I ventured further, I discovered, learned and experienced more on my journey and things shifted. Not just by finding out more about myself and just how much 'a part of me' BDSM actually is. But also because only little tends to stay the way it used to be. Then again, some things don't change that much. "I'm an easy switch - I'm always on", is one that has stuck with me from the start of my journey. Make sure to look whether the light is on for: D or s.

I am open, honest and direct and I appreciate those qualities in others. In some instances I would say I demand them. I'm a switch with both D and s in me. Discovering and exploring my BDSM label, that in retrospect has always been there. I'm still feeling new at this, though that might be a misconception too. I continue to travel with people I like having in my life. Now looking on to new possibilities in the avenue of life I have just entered. Limited only by myself and my sense of direction.
The rest, well... you'll just have to figure that out for yourself, or better yet, ask me.

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Er is geen Nederlandse vertaling. Ik heb er een hekel aan om in herhaling te vallen. Mocht je me toch beter willen leren kennen en/of met de Engelse tekst echt niets kunnen, kun je ook een PM sturen.

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It's a crazy time. Moving and remodeling in very little time. Workers that seem to forget time tables or get burn-outs and make their problem into yours.

Hoping for some r 'n r very soon.