xianamorous

about the collar in my profile photo: i am NOT a sub nor a switch. it is in fact a jab at alot of you so called Dommes who think its about a power play or dominating your control over another. anyone with a little sense and a lot of compassion, knows that it is the sub/slave who truly has the control. to be a caring, nurturing, extracting Dom i must always be aware of my sub's space. to administer genuinely erotic pain and punishment, i must deliver it with compassion and empathy. if you don't understand this, contact me and i'll beat into you myself :)

just to be absolutely clear, i'm here to actually meet others who share the same interests or are open to exploring new experiences with me. on line and phone relationships only, bore me and are a waste of valuable time that could be spent living life. so if you have no interest in ever meeting, even if just as friends (we can't honestly expect to be attracted to everyone we encounter), please move on.

1st journal post: i'm writing this out of respect to those of you who have dedicated their emotional time to create a deeper profile for more than just 1 time hook-ups. that isn't my desire either; repetition has its rewards! and beyond that, developing those primal connections and expanding and broadening my life experiences is the ultimate goal...isn't that the point?

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