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Hi, not really sure what I’m looking for expecting from this site but I’ve enjoyed reading through the profiles so I thought I’d write one. I’m uk born Chinese but live in China.

I don’t want your passport or your money and I’m pretty happy where I am.

I grew up as quite a submissive girl and when I was young I would often choose to sit on the floor in a room and was always happy to do things to please. It is probably fair to say that I was brought up to see women as inferior to men and I have no problem with that however I do not consider myself a weak female, I consider myself strong. I do not in any way consider myself a ‘freak’ or ‘unusual’, I am just a normal person who is naturally subservient. I think the word ‘slave’ is sexy and my ears always perk up when I hear it.

I looked through these like and dislike things but I don’t really know what some of them are (Renaissance Faires?). I’ve never been bird watching but I suspect it could be a lot of fun with the right person and very boring with the wrong one and I think that might be my response to most of the activities.I don't even know all the music types but if anyone wants to suggest good things to listen to, i'll give it a try :)

I have some experience with Chinese and foreign men of various ages and I think there have been positives in them all and I have found joy in serving each of them. I don’t really think however that I’m qualified to decide if I’m an expert in anything so it’s probably just easier to tell you the sort of things I’ve done (doesn’t mean I’m good at them!)

I have: been used in all my holes/licked all over the male body/given full body and foot massages/done housework, cooking, served as a waitress as ordered/licked &kissed feet and sucked &fucked toes/been racially dominated (if that’s the right way to say it)/dressed as ordered including being kept naked indoors and with no underwear outside./been urinated on/had cum all over my body and licked it from the floor/been spanked with hands, brushes , shoes/been whipped with a belt/tied to a bed/blindfolded/begged for all sorts of things/been used as a table & footstool/been spat on/had ginger, tiger balm, chilli used on me/had my nipples twisted & pulled/masturbated while being watched.
So, i've disappeared here for a very long time again. Not sure why i'm back, living in a new city for a while and just came across my old login details so logged in on a whim. Some of the messages i've received already remind me why i stopped logging on and some of the remind me what i've missed.
Anyway.....hello (again)......i'm nice, i'm human but i'm not about to drop everything and get on a plane to travel halfway across the world to meet a man who has shown me a picture of his penis online and orders me to :) If you think that doesn't make me submissive then fine, i will bow to your superior knowledge and you can ignore me, you do not need to send me a message explaining this
Initially i was always scared to put any photos on here and i still sometimes get nervous about having them up but i now accept that i do enjoy being displayed for people to see and welcome the comments. i guess it's just another example of 'limits' being a fluid concept rather than set in stone.
my personal rules for messages are: 1. Reply at least once to each person. 2. Be polite. 3. Be honest (even when it isn't what the other person wants to hear). Not sure the people i'm talking to read this far but just in case, because of rule 1 & 3 this could save me a lot of messages: i live near Guangzhou. i am probably wearing something like shorts and a t shirt i very rarely sit checking my email in a thong and a basque :-) i have no idea how tight i am because i have nothing to compare it with. Given that if i was unusual in any way someone would have probably said something by now, i presume i am average neither tight or loose (is that the opposite???). i am neither collared nor owned but i do have a bf who tells me what to do :-)
One thing i have learnt from CM is that i am now virtually unshockable :-) Even the comments i get that sort of revolt me i have managed politely reply to. It's strange that if some of the racial comments were said to me on the street i would probably end up in tears but here i not only accept them in a way i actually enjoy them. i guess it is about permission, by putting a profile on here i have given other users limited rights in how they relate to me and they are exercising them. So here's to your freedom of expression!

Haven't been on for a while and there's a reason for that, i have been very busy being told what to do by someone i met :) i'm afraid that now the chance of me meeting you has gone from 'highly unlikely' to 'no chance at all'. Still happy to exchange thoughts etc. and i'll try to reply to the backlog of messages. By way of apology for my absence i've added a picture of me grovelling :)

Sorry, been away for a bit.
i do take a delight in many things on this site and happily click on profiles if i like the picture or the name or sometimes just random. Please don't take offence if i have looked at yours, i never touch anything and leave it exactly how i find it :-)

Thanks for all the welcome messages. i've enjoyed reading them and i promise to reply to them all.....even the ones i don't really understand:) So he we go...please be patient....