I am fascinated by the lifestyle ! I enjoy fulfilling fantasies hearing ,visualizing,dreaming them & then living them. I am a very down to earth for real person I am always open to new things & experiencing erotica to its limits. Living on the edge & pushing the envelope is a way of life for me . I am always restless & insatiable !!! I have a wild imagination & a sense of adventure that will get the most passive dancing & on an adventure with a passion for life!
Although, Sometimes I like to dance alone!
There is a great stigma in this lifestyle about switching ,some seem to think its a bit loony tunes. who are we to judge when we are so far from the norm???
I assure you , my interest in switching gives me great insight to be able to see, feel ,experience and receive what it is I give!!!!!! I've had expierence with both Dominance & submission !
After taking the BDSM quiz aparently I am an Exibitionist..!! Your results may surprise you!
I am looking for like minded individuals for casual play time NSA ! I'm open to LTR!
The Woman always hosts the 1st meeting that means you must come to me..! I would prefer you to be within 25 miles or be able to stimulate me if you live any further!
Please don't contact me with out a CURRENT photo..its simply not fair if you can see me & i cant see you!
Venus
I have been on a bit of a hiatis ....http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0005.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Im back better then ever & truly prepared to tackel my demons
With a vengence !!http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0393.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Being switchy is a delicate balance ..of masculin & femine ..yin and yang ..dominance & submissionhttp://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0504.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
The more I dominate the more I crave submission and visa versa..
Venus
I am at ChatauMaliko ..with Painmaster one
Its a beautiful utiopia in paradise & I cant praise him or the Chatau too much ...! Its an honor & a pleasure to meet such a Master & I will have many more fantsies & errotica Fettish stories to write !
IT has inspired me to stop & smell the roses Although here ( its a Lei !)
This expierence of total submission is going to make me a better Dominate !
& balance out my Switchy woman ! http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0002.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Venus
I have come to the conclusion that I only answer maybe one out of 10 emails I recieve for various reasons ..
One they are too far away & I will never meet them in real life!
Two...I am not attracted to their photo..
Three....There may be too many things listed or mentioned in their profile that are not my thing!
Four...They dont stimulate me mentally...
Five ...They assume because Im a Switch that I must be a pain slut because i like to dish it out ...not true ...im a slut that likes to push her limits to the edge but I am NOT a pain slut!
Six ...their initial email to me was rude or shows their assholyness!!!
Just becuse you lable your self as Dominate doesnt give you a licence to be an asshole !! Male or Female!!!!!!
With that said only one out of ten men even have a chance ......those are not good odds are for men are they!!
I can truly appreciate anyone who takes the time to write me a personal email!
Although.. I think I need to draft a form letter .. that simply says Thank you for your interest .. Welcome to BDSM ..here is your newbie guide ..of dos & donts ..!!
I am NOT a teacher for newbies or into the Mommy thing ..!!
I am a Domestic goddess..yet I am not very mechanically inclined!
Im a good friend & a nice person yet I get bored with my toys quite easy!
I enjoy intelligent people who stimulate my mind! And would be exstatic if I could find someone who wows me!
Im a very sensual passsionate person & project it through my personal energy!
Wow I must say... The monthly West Coast Social for Collar Me!!! ..Was an awesome way to meet & greet a whole lot of like minded kinksters in one night !
A big thank you to all the naughty folks & the Lair for working so hard to make it happen!
Mistress Venus
As much I have gone on a rant about all the dazed & confused peeps I have encountered in this life style that have missing pieces to their puzzels !!!! I have also met some really nice down to earth like minded people & I can truly say" Wow it was worth wading through all the bull shit!
I find it concerning when people fixate on one fettish or fantasy..
With that thought in mind I like to go through my interests periodically & choose new ones I find intriqing! I enjoy diving into my hedonoisic desires head first & explore my fantasies un full filled, my deepest darkest secret desires that are lurking in the shadows of the mind that need nurturung & mutual full fillment! A mind fuck can be quite exzillerating & empowering ! Mutual mental masterbation at its finest!
Im on a mission to find a roomate who is lifestyle & pet Friendly!!!!! I know this like minded folk exsists!
I am just absolutely misified at all the people here who are fakes, flakes DISAPOINTMENTS &/OR misrepresenting them selves in some way shape or form! Or they simply dont know what the hell they want or they are confused ! I understand this is the poor mans porn & voierism at its finest .a place to full fill your secret hedonistic desires . I enjoy gazing at the pretty picturs too but people dont click your life away..decide what you want & say it .. Be careful what you ask for you just might get it!
Maybe some are fearfull that if they walk through that door they may like it or even love it & thats a scary thought !! I can promise you this from my expierence once you walk through that lifestyle door there is NO TURNING BACK! I have personally resigned myself to the fact that Im tri sexual I will try anything once ! If I like it I will do it again! So lets be honest with our selves above all Decide what we want & not give a rats ass about others passing judement ..(which is human nature ) Thought for the day.. Play hard, play naughty but nice & above all play safe!
I just did a spell check on my profile just happened to be on another pc & saw all the high lighting ..how embarrassing ..even worse no one called me on it!!! ?
This site really doesnt protect your pictures ..I have been on other alternative lifestlye sites that protect your pix by Water marking them! So no one can use them with out your knowledge! This is full discloser that if anyone uses my pictures with out my knowledge or consent they will be investigated & prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
