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I had to make a new profile on here

for some reason. My old profile uses

the name Vargus. You will find a more

detailed profile there. But if you want

to contact me. I think you will have to

use this new profile.

I'm just an ordinary average guy, nothing special about me at all, except having a very sick sadistic mind and fetish for bound females.

I only write back or chatt with those that write to me first it saves a lot of time. I'm a firm believer in a sub or slave ,"chooses", their Master not the other way around.

Be a giver not a taker.

I read some very wise words today.

Being a Master is NOT:

1. Mindlessly bashing and beating the flesh of another.

2. Self Centred thinking.

3. Actions without consequeces.

4. Punishing without reason or teaching.


The above is ABUSE and NOT MASTERY.


Here is some of the things that MASTER stands for:

M
Mindful of the needs of their slave and listens to their sharing and gives room to share

beacause the better you understand your slave the better you can interact on a deeper level and

the more intense the experiences you can create and enjoy.

A
Aware of the consequences of every action on all levels beacause if you think there are none then

you are a FOOL and should NOT be in a position of authority.

S

Strict both with yourself first and then your slave. For every Rule you make, make sure you set two

for yourself. A Master that thinks they are free of Rules is Deluding themselves and dose not understand

their position. A Master has more Rules than a slave to live up to.

T
Trustworthy in other words You must be able to be trusted, as you are dealing with real lives and

real people.

E
Enlightened, Ethical which means having High Morals, Strong Principles, You must be worth looking up to.

R
Responsible for the well being and safety of their slave. Emotionally, Physically, and Spiritually. Someone has

desided to put much of their life in your hands, TREAT IT LIKE IT IS THE MOST PRECIOUS THING IN

THE UNIVERSE because they are precious in every way and what you break can not be replaced in them, that

treasure is lost to the world forever.


I want what is best for my slave, so that my slave can better serve ME and THEMSELVES.

They must walk out in the outside world stronger and better then when they first came into my service.

Yes we will always have an exchange of energy my pleasures and theirs, my pains will become theirs as

theirs becomes mine.

If a master is out to do damage to the inner being of their slave then they should not be there,

because then they are not a Master, but merely a slave to their own weakness.

Your guidance and teaching must bring greater rewards to the person in their life.

To me it is about, MAKING MORE OF THE OTHER NOT MAKING LESS OF THEM.

That way I know my slave is at my feet in Love and Devoted Service and not out of FEAR for their well being.












   Are you flexible enough, that I could tie your ankles behind your head?

 

   If being totally helpless exposed and at the mercy of a man with a bit of a

sadistic mind set scares you, but at the same time never stops being exhilarating.

Then I might be the kind of guy you seek. Probably the one your mother warned you about, a practitioner of sexually perverted arts.

 

    However I suspect that I'm far too old, to be of much interest to most, and live too far away from where things happen. Its likely the major reason why I'm ignored or put off anyone's wanted list.

 

    It really doesn't matter much to me anymore. I'm mainly here just to learn things and sometimes to be kind and help others along with their journey.

 

    The best advice I can give to anyone is this: if this is not what makes you happy inside and out, from the top of your head to the bottom of your toes, to the depths of your soul, if it doesn't tickle every single one of your senses, if it doesn't make YOU happy ( because YOU matter ! ), reconsider what you're doing. You're only going to live once; don't be miserable, and don't put yourself and your needs second.