My needs have led me here.
I don't live the lifestyle, I haven't been the Master to a woman, I'm not sure what my limits of Sadism are.
I know that a vanilla relationship isn't what I'm looking for. I know I manipulate and control people and events without even thinking. I know blood can excite me, and I know flipping you off the deep end into sexual estacy pleases me as well.
I seek a woman to challenge me outside the bedroom, and be challenged herself inside. Intelligence, the ability to yield completely, eloquence, understanding of emotional issues, competence with your life, high sex drive, care for your own life and happiness, honesty, trust, these are all musts for me.
You must be submissive but not self deprecating. Capable of making your own decisions, but also letting me make them for you, once you realize I'm looking out for you. My pleasure is your pleasure, and yours comes easily. No matter how strange my requests are, you shall follow them and anticipate my direction. Boldly try to understand me if I am not explicit, and take your punishment when you fail.
I'm a pretty normal, nice guy who's ruined relationships because the kinks weren't worked out beforehand, so here's my shot in the opposite direction. I seek a partner to compliment me and a vessel for my love. I'm caring, kind, rational, supportive, encouraging, and will do my best to help you achieve your best.
My picture is a role reversal joke.
Yahoo me and we can talk. Only people within 100 miles of Santa Cruz please, and no one over 45.
