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Hello all.
I'm not going to put on an act and be theatrical about who I am and what it is that I do. I'm totally straightforward and I expect the people I talk with to be as well.
I'm a very good looking, successful male from NYC. I'm friendly and easy to get along with in general, and most people who look at me would never guess that I do this kind of thing in my free time. I don't have any tattoos, I don't wear spiked collars, I don't want you to call me master, and I don't particularly want to 'own' anyone either, unless the situation is just right.

I provide services to sub/slave women who want to be intensely dominated, and particularly who want to experience pain. I can be cruel and degrading with it, or encouraging and supportive, depending on what you need; I'm also easy going for novices. But make no mistake, I have virtually no limit to the kind of pain I am capable of inflicting, and I won't flinch even if you're a crying, bruised and/or bloody mess. I do respect all limits of course (most people have them, obviously), but if you tell me 'no limits', expect several long days of recovery in your future. Travel isn't a problem for me, and I'm more than willing to travel to meet eager participants who are in need of what I can do.

I am VERY experienced. Things I am practiced and proficient in are as follows:
Breast bondage
Nipple torture (mild to severe)
Breast skewering/needle play
Nail boarding
Saline inflation
Breast caning/whipping/torture (mild to severe)
Staple gun
Cutting/razor/knife/blood play
Asphyxiation/breath play/hanging
Burning/fire play/hot wax/human ashtray
Mild to very severe body torture, including wire whips, caning and leather whips
Hitting/slapping/degradation
Anal torture and stretching
Vagina torture, including needle play, severe whipping and sewing
Clit torture (pumping, whipping, needle play, cutting)
Spiked dildos
Speculum play/pussy stretching
Object insertion/fisting
Cervix torture (cervical pin cushion, internal candle/wax torture)
Labia cutting/trimming
Watersports/toilet slavery
Rape and related fantasies
Anorexia/bulimia training
Milking/lactation training
Glory hole and gangbang training
Rough sex

If you're interested in any of these things or have any other ideas, do let me know; I'm always interested in trying new things, and I have a few new things I want to try as well. I'm really open minded in general.

Also, if you're a beginner and have questions or want to know anything about what I've done, or just want to chat, feel free to message me. I'm happy to chat whenever I'm available.

For obvious reasons, I'm not going to post too many pictures of myself here, but if you contact me directly I'll provide you with whatever you'd like to see, including video chat. You should be able to do the same. If you're fake, I can tell pretty quickly, so be ready to webcam verify or at least have some actual pictures for me. And if your pictures are from the internet I will know immediately, because I've seen all of them, so don't embarrass yourself.

Additionally, I'm not going to respond to you if you have some deep philosophical bullshit on your profile. I can't even tell you how stupid that all sounds, especially on a site like this. Nor will I respond if you're illiterate, can't spell, or otherwise have trouble putting together a coherent sentence. You don't have to be a PhD, just functionally conversational.

NOTE: If you email me and I don't get back to you within ten seconds of reading your message DON'T get all bent out of shape and offended. Sometimes I just browse my messages and plan to reply in the evening or at some other time when I can focus better. So please don't send me another email immediately after, asking why I read your message but didn't write back. I'll get to it.

NOTE #2: Its fine with me if you're on the curvy side. It's not okay with me if you're morbidly obese. You should be able to tell the difference. Particularly if you're looking to do anything more than chat.

NOTE #3: I'm also seeking a female dom who's interested in possibly teaming up to work on some of my sub girls. I have a few in particular with specific interests which require a woman, so if you're a female dominant and comfortable with extreme play, please get in touch.
I deactivated my profile for around four years because I didn't need any new girls, but I'm back and seeking new slaves for friendship and torture. 

My profile explains in detail what I'm experienced with, but I'm open to new ideas as well. Please by all means say hello if you're interested in chatting. 

Although I said it in my profile, it bears repeating; if you don't have a webcam or some other means to verify who you are at some point, then please don't message me. It probably won't be the first thing I ask you, but I will ask for it eventually if you want to have any kind of serious conversation with me. It doesn't mean I want a 'show', just a basic verification.

Seriously, it's 2012. Literally every computer has a webcam, and every phone has a camera. There is no excuse not to be able to do this, and if you say that you can't then you're clearly lying about something. There are wayyy too many fake profiles on this site to trust anyone, and it's just common sense to want to make sure the person you're talking to is legit. If I can do it, you can too.

Want to do a full female circumcision. I've done two partials so far, but never the whole thing.

I've been reading up on it, and would love to talk to women who are also interested, curious and/or have experience, even if it's just to chat for now.

What is with all the fake profiles? Seriously, its fucking out of hand.

If your profile pics are of a super cute, happy-go-lucky teenage girl, and you write in your profile how much you fantasize about being a pain slave and your deep desires to find a harsh master to control your life, then not only are you clearly fake; you're also really bad at being fake. Guess what... teenage cheerleader-types don't fucking talk or think like that. At all. Nor do supermodels, or mainstream porn girls or any of the other pics of stunning women you find online and think would be super awesome to use on your fantasy profile.

Does anyone fucking fall for these profiles? Like, are guys so dumb that they think some gorgeous 18 year old girl with absolutely no outward indicators of being interested in BDSM wants to give up her life and be a full-time slave? I'm not saying there maybe aren't a few out there, but browsing these profiles it seems like they're fucking 80% of the population or something. Please. It's embarassing.