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Male Dominant, 51, Gates, New York
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Male Dominant, 40, Charlotte, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 41, Auckland
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About Thumper78
i value honesty and trust above all else. �If Y/you can't be honest with me (ACK! or even Y/yourself!), then no type of relationship will work out with me...Honesty/openness is followed closely by affection...VERY closely. �i am very affectionate, and i show my feelings for others primarily by being close to them...While this doesn't rule out sexual encounters, it doesn't mean that, either. �Snuggling, hugging, just sitting or laying close together...being petted, scratched, etc. �is what i mean by that. �If Y/you have a problem being affectionate, then any type of relationship simply won't work with me. �It's one thing to be aloof for a scene, another to do it all the time...i get the impression Y/you don't like me, and i can't shake it...i know from experience it will drive a wedge.
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i am bi. �For men, this means i bottom. �i have no desire to top with men, ive tried it in the past, and it just does nothing for me. �i have strong feelings against myself being male, and with men, i enjoy imagining, even for a minute or two- ;) - of being female. �For women, this entails all sorts of things...it primarily depends on the particular female as well as the situation, but for the most part i enjoy being close to females in most ways. �For transsexuals, see women...hehe...
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i am a bit of a little, though not very young (twelvish, when she comes out), but in the end, i AM an adult. �While i love being mother-henned, i have extreme dislike of coddling, primarily when it covers up the truth...
i am also a pet...mostly a pup, but i found i at least enjoy the idea of pet play, be it neko, puppy, pony, bunny, what-have-you..i think it appeals to the little in me.
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im absolutely HORRIBLE about asking for things...to my mind, once ive shared with a Top/Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress what i like and enjoy, once negotiations are out of the way, im of the thought that They are the ones in charge...if it's something i like, then the answer to, would you like to? is always yes. �im into a bit of consent/non-consent with People i trust, so especially when im not in the mood, the answer is yes! lol...something about being forced into some activity is to me quite a turn on...
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i'd say im about 98% submissive/slave. �Very much into Gor (im on book 9!), i LOVE protocol. �It was right at 100% up until the last month, and while im not entirely sure what woke it up, a slight toppy side has arisen, although at this time it's limited to females and their asses...mainly beating them...i got to experience recently flogging a girls ass, and it was VERY fun and sating.
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i am a member of the National Leather Association Houston(NLAH), recently voted in as a sitting Member at Large, and between that and work, and my�Dom and Domme�dragging me from this club to that, i stay pretty busy. �Please note, that while i WILL go out with a friend or two, it's not my preference, being more of a homebody, believing honestly that i go out enough when i go to work and to the grocery store!
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i try to be as open and honest as possible...so feel free to ask me what Y/you like. �If i feel a question too uncomfortable to answer, ill gladly let Y/you know, along with reasoning as to why...
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THAT being said, i would like to say that i dont check in here probably as often as id like to, but im trying my best to change that, just please be patient.
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kk, till later then,
brian |
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YAAAY! finally got pics uploaded...will be more to follow soon! mWAH |
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OK, having issues uploading photos...working on it as i have time...i do have ONE tattoo, that i recently got, and zero piercings...one of the pics im working on uploading is of the tattoo...please bear with me! |
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Ok so for those interested in playing:
FIRSTLY!!! No matter how badly i might wish to play with Y/you, it is a MUST to have my Owners permission!!!! No ecxeptions!!! They are on collarme as 'LillithsMurmur'. Feel free to express interest in playing to me, but please do not try to set it up without first speaking to either Sir or Ma'am AND gaining Their okay first. Thank You...that being said--
my list of likes and such is fairly up to date, but feel free to ask any questions that Y/you may have. To keep things pretty simple, i am bi. When it comes to males, I definately prefer to bottom, and i LOVE the daddy types. For females, it entirely depends on T/them, and the mood T/they set. Feeling this should be pointed out -- i do tend to view it as a bit dominant to penetrate someone in a sexual way, i WILL have trouble viewing You as in charge, if i am asked to do so.
As far as my position, i do tend toward masochistic tendencies, although for me, it's purely about taking the pain the Top gives out, rather than enjoying the sensation. As far as thumpy/stingy goes....hmmm...i would say I prefer stingy, but can handle thumpy.
Ooooooook, soooo any other questions, please feel free to ask!
-brian |
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