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Dominant divorced male looking for a female sub/slave (24/7) to train and for play. Possible long term, and must be d/d free. I'm intelligent, witty, strict, caring, clean, d/d free and desires to stay that way. I am looking for a female submissive to grow together in the lifestyle. I expect my submissive to be loyal, respectful, femmine and well kept. Your body type must be height weight proportionate, curves is ok.� If you have no or limited experience, that is ok. I would prefer to train you My way. Just be willing in your heart to learn and be open minded.
I expect a lot, but I also give a lot. I'm a Master that knows how to treat his lady, and I highly respect your "gift" of submission and trust. I can also provide the "vanilla" in your life that you may want in addition as a submissive. I'm a person that lives life to the fullest, I work and play hard. Some of my interest include some sports, the outdoors, fireplaces, intellectual discourse, good conversation, music, being around water, romantic walks on a chilly evening with a brandy to warm up after. I will reply only to those who send a picture. I am very real and geniune, and not a game player. I expect you to be the same. Please read my journal entries before contacting Me. Thank you for checking me out. If you want to know more, please feel free to ask. I would love to discuss life style issues with you.
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Finally free from the vanilla bonds that hinderd my lifestyle freedom.... |
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TO ANYONE WHO BLOCKED ME OR GHOSTED ME
Thank you.
When a person ghosts or blocks me I think it says more about them than it does about me.
When someone ghosts or blocks me I say a little prayer. Well, that's not the first thing I do. The first thing I do is to probably to say a few little curse words --- just a few of my favorites --- and then I say a little prayer. I say the prayer because I am thankful that I dodged a bullet.
I think that people who ghost or block others are weak and cowardly. They don't have the strength of character, integrity, honesty, or courage that I want, in fact, require in anyone that I am associated with whether it be a friend, a submissive, a colleague, or anyone else. They are doing me a favor by ghosting or blocking me because I am better off without them.
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I need to update my profile here, long overdue. My profile that is currently posted, is one that was written when I first join CS.
Since then, through the years of properly being mentored, learning, and maturing in the lifestyle, my outlook and perspective on the lifestyle has changed greatly.
Over the years, I have learned that the lifestyle has much more to offer than just kinky, hurtful play and sex. People who have that mentality, do not really take time to appreciate and cherish the finer aspaspects of having a submissive or slave that puts herself out there just to please others.
Although my current profile states what I'm looking for, doesn't really mean that I have the improper attitude. My attitude has greatly changed, and if you take the time to learn more about me or others that inquire into your profile, you might find a hidden jewel in this rubbish heap on this site.
I, as a Master, is not into this lifestyle for the kinky sex, but for it to greatly enhance the relationship, to make it strong, safe, to enhance growth in each other, make each other grow and be fulfilled. Most importantly, I desire and will make my submissive or slave feel appreciated and cherished in everything she does, and to give her that balance of the vanilla and lifestyle is important. There are other aspaspects that go along with the relationship that are just as important as well.
This might give the impression that I'm not a strict Master or Dominate, for I can be strict, but fair, and generous as well. I'm a laid back easy type of guy, but I'm observant and knows whats going on. I'm not a pushover by any means.
Whatever you do, don't judge a book by its cover.... you might lose out on a jewel! |
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How do you determine "mutual interest" if there is no dialogue to begin with? You may or may not agree with everyones likes, dislikes, and I don't expect everyone to agree with mine. But with some form of dialogue, it should be determined if there is mutual interest? What ever happened to the meaning of compromise? Isn't that one of the many important aspaspects of any relationship, including living the lifestyle? |
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I'm disappointed in people being rude on here, realized that there are submissives and slaves that are extremely rude and disrespectful, even after sending a polite inquiry. Then, to get a response asking thoughts on my political beliefs, and then not being able to respond quickly, I get called nasty political names. After writing a response explaining my position, and explaining how I feel, I'm blocked. A true sign of being a coward and low life on this site.
There have been many wonderful conversations with Transgendered individuals, and I come to respect them more than some of the submissves or slaves that I've come to know on here.
It is no ones business to know how I feel in regards to political issues, or how I feel about the election results, past or current presidents. Its none of my business to know how you feel in this regard, unless you want to freely discuss it, but don't get upset or angry if they don't align with you.
In my opinion, I feel that politics and religion should not belong in a lifestyle relationship. I welcome to hear your opinion.
Efforts should be put into establishing and developing a lifestyle relationship, than worrying, or stressing out about political bull shit.
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As I appreciate the opportunity to chat with potential subs about joining me. If you ask for any financial assistance while establishing a relationship, or before accepting a trial period with this Master, I will not consider you. I will determine when I will start supporting you. I can assure you, that when the time comes, you will be well taken care of. |
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Here is something else that I firmly believe in and should be in every relationship.
"If someone gives you their heart, handle it with utmost care. Love someone who laughs when you laugh, cries when you cry, and who loves when you love. The strongest bond on earth is that between two human beings that have come to know and share each other's innermost thoughts and desires. If the bond is true,, nothing can break it. Find someone you can create that bond with, and work tirelessly to preserve it."
I've been there before and it is a wonderful place to be in. I hope someday to be able to return to it, and I hope that you will find it. |
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I believe that a collar is a gift on both parts. For the Owner, it is a gift of Ownership, of their caring, love and desire to possess and have in their life this person who feels they are deserving of utter and complete surrendor. An Owner gives the gift of his strength and possession, of his life and his home to a slave who gives the gift of her love, devotion, and of herself in all ways.. The trust that is built up, can be amazing and all consuming. A most intesne passionate embrace of each other.
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I get the impression that your "likes" & dislikes has to match here to find a partner on this site. The most important thing to me is what is inside your heart that's more important, how you want to work to develope a strong relationship. That should come first. All the other interests are all "icing on the cake"! Wouldn't it be great if you were to look at it constructively and say, "gee, our relationship can be diversified", or "we can explore one another's interests together" to help solidify OUR relationship, something that was accomplished togehter instead of being just one sided.
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I don't feel sorry for all the game players & wannabe's on this site. They only get in their own way by being concieted and stuck up. Letting their so called outward beauty get in the way of releasing their inner beauty. I realize that everyone has to be safe and becareful of the "jerks" on this site, but when an individual is judged by the cover of their book, and not to take time to explore what is in the inside, shame on you. You never know what your going to find, if you don't explore the possible inner beauty of the other's soul. You may be suprised on what you may find.
I know what I'm looking for, and where I'm going, if you decide to take the opportunity to explore, I hope you will not pass up the opportunity, for I will only offer it once for you to explore.
I welcome your willingness to contact me, for togehter, we can both explore what could be a possible exciting relationship.
"What you think of me is none of my business. What is most important is what I think about myself."
My train is starting to move.... |
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Just added some new photos, waiting for approval... |
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I am able to successfully accept chat invitations at this point. Would be willing to chat and to discuss interests and intelligent conversation only. Be safe! |
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I think that the problem is temporaily solved, would like to be able to chat and see if this feature works, I have downloaded java script. Would love to hear from you! Also, please feel free to us this to chat at newyork1952 at hotmail. Please be well and safe!
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I have been having problems with the chat feature on this web site. I just got a new laptop and has the new windows vista - home basic. If anybody knows of any fixes, I would appreciate an email. I would prefer to chat on yahoo and my id is: thumper195220022002
My chat feature works okay there.
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It would be nice for individuals to post their profiles correctly. When someone says in their profile "willing to relocate" but when they replied that they were not interested in a long distance relationship, why did they post that desire? It just goes to show how serious that individual really is, just another game player.... |
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I'm not afraid to build a long distance relationship if the end result if the girl is relocatable, and I will explain why.
Through the years of maturity, I have found that it's not all about sex, but a bond that is formed in the heart by very important building blocks like, trust, loyality, communication, honesty, commitment, respect, being able to listen, caring, and many more. No one is more important than the other, but both are justly equally important to build a very strong relationship in each other lives. Physical and mental emotions are strong factors that are involved is everyone's life and no one is exempt from them, they are very powerful and must be handled with care, so as not to destroy the other individual.
Some of the common mistakes that I feel happens is when a person is judged by age, looks, and desires and put the physical aspects first. I have to admit that I have fallen many times to the latter, but there is nothing wrong in knowing what you want.
The physical aspect of the relationship will happen naturally, when there is a deep respect for each other, in receiving a sub/slave's submission, or a sub/slave in giving it to her Dom/Domme/Master.
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I'm returining to this site after a break from looking looking for a girl. One of the items that I did not mention in my profile, is that I'm a down to earth type guy who is looking to establish friendships on this site and possibly more. I look and read the profiles, but really wonder how honest they are. So far, I have meet a couple of ladies and had very good conversations with them and developed friendships. It would be even nicer if people on this site would be courteous to respond either way, but I guess that's life. I enjoy most things in life, including the lifestyle, but would like to find a girl to help her improve herself in many aspects. I do have a web cam and dsl if that helps. I'm not currently involved in any serious realtionships, I have been divorced for almost two years, employed full time, and starting to seriously look into developing a long term relationship.
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