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It says SUB not slave. If you don't know the difference then look it up...
**Everyone has their own arrangements but I prefer it if you AREN"T married and expect that if You are married and your other half doesn't know your kinks, that you don't expect me to consider RL with you. I just don't have the stomach to be the other woman. Sorry but thats me.***
So much has changed in my life recently, loads I have had to bear have made me stronger.
I am not here looking for an instant relationship, I want to make friends, chat and learn what I can from the amazing wealth of people around me. If something evolves then that is fine but I have no desire to force what's not there.
I am here to make friends, young/old, male/female, gay/straight, sub/Dom, etc etc so on and so forth.
I am naturally playful and like to joke, I'm affectionate by nature and very relaxed. I'm not easy to offend though this is by no means a challenge, I have sensitive moments like anybody else.
While I am listed as a submissive yet I find that my 'responses' depend on the people around me and by no means will I automatically submit to someone just because they proclaim themselves Dominant over me. (If you are curious or not sure what I mean then ask!)
I do believe in respect though and will treat everyone around me respectfully until they prove themselves otherwise worthy.
I am very interested in the protocols and dynamics of D/s, I like to learn about them and discuss them with people from any colour of the rainbow.
I do enjoy observing D/s protocols in chat and reserve the right to decide I suddenly want too play rough or that I prefer to sit back and watch chat roll by.
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i love takeaway food/indulging bad habits/excessive alcohol consumption/sitting on my fat ass watchng bad movies.
Ask me How! |
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A GIFT?
It is my thought that if a submissive doesn't value herself or give herself worth then what
value is there on her submission. (which i view as a gift)
i am a single vibrant woman who is intelligent and while i am looking for a Dominant whom i connect with i will be holding my head high and looking after myself well, so that when i choose to submit to Him/Her then They will know They reviece the best gift that i can give them. A healthy, well, submissive. my unwiavering trust that They will not abuse this woman and her dedication to Themselves.
I believe that my submission and subsequent trust, indeed my heart, is a gift that i choose to whom i give it. if You disagree that is based on Your own beliefs and ideas and i won't tell You that You are incorrect as this is a subject that is largely subjective and interpreted differently winthin each individual dynamic.
Being a Dominant and choosing a partner to be Dominant over is just as much a gift. it takes strength and devotion to shoulder the 'burden' of another being. it is by no means easy and is definitely not undervalued by this submissive.
If you cannot see my pov (and i will discuss it with Y/you in detail if Y/you would like too but i will not be fighting over it.) then perhaps W/we aren't suited and its better W/we give is a miss.
SKitty. |
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HARD LIMIT FOUND!
***is not interested in being treated like a BABY. Is a woman with a woman's needs, no Diapers, pacifiers or baby talk here.. BLECH!*** |
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I have met many different types of Dominant on here, Gorean (which i have no claims to fully understanding), Daddies, Dommes, nearly every color of the rainbow and it seems there is just so much to learn about all of them.
I'm really looking to talk to people about who they are and what they are about, how they are thinking and such things. Helping me discover just what it is I want and/or need from this lifestyle.
I am not as interested in 'training' which will lead to a collar with the Dominant, so much as having a mentor to teach me the ways of things.
I am still healing after a failed relationship and am not prepared to offer (at present) anything other than friendship and some play. Stick around and don't pressure me, let me grow to trust and know you, in time care for you and then lets think about collars.
We really don't need to rush, if You are meant to be my Everything then we have all the time in the world to find each other.
I live in Australia, (its a long way from the rest of the world), I have two small children (they are a part of the package and as such my lifestyle needs to be child friendly) - these are the facts and need to be faced realistically.
Perhaps a harsh journaly entry but honest and true.
~ pieces of a girl, held together with tape ~ |
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A friend and I were discussing his role as a DaddyDom and how once again this is an 'umbrella' label that covers so many mindsets and dynamics. I though it would be good to record part of the conversation as its the probably the dynamic I am feeling the most of late.
"I really don't consider Daddy to be about age play... it's more about the role. If I'm Daddy, I'm the caring authority figure, who's supposed to protect and is to be trusted and obeyed, but not necessarily feared as much.
When I want to be feared, I play Master, not Daddy.
Granted, age play is fun on occasions, but it's definitely not a prevailing mindset or anything. "
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So if Y/you see me loitering in a chat its because I'm taking my time, testing the waters and getting to know the lay of the land before I wade in.
Say hi by all means.
I'm not a stuck up or frigid bitch, nor am I so desperate that I will kneel to the first person to offer it. Hell I may just find the person that sets off the Domme in me - its happened before, once, but its happened.
Natural evolution of a dynamic between two people. The only way to fly. |
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I am not defined by my mistakes, I am shaped by them and they make me stronger. |
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