I've found a Collar Me 'CLUB' I think more people should be curious about it...
the following is an inbox I received from a 'woman' saying her name is Mae, and her screen name on here is missmaepdx
To:spankable on 10/10/12 at 4:18 PM:Are you ever the one doing the spanking? do you like punishing as well? xoxo Mae
I replied: on 10/10/12 at 4:42 PM:Yes like to give and receive spankings as I'm a switch and like both roles
Mae: on 10/10/12 at 4:43 PM: I mostly domme myself, are you interested in harder disciplines? inflicting something a bit more harsh? :) xoxo Mae
My reply: on 10/10/12 at 4:55 PM: I have, in the last I've done some severe and extreme punishments. I also currently play with some friends who go by the motto of " it's not over til someone bleeds and then it's just time to make a mess"
Mae: on 10/10/12 at 4:56 PM:My kinda people (I went to UW by the way, and miss WA a lot). Myself and a fellow Domme are up to some mischief that involves hard discipline for men. We could certainly use another hand at this. It's specific, easy to teach, not real time, but fun all the same. Would you be interested in hearing more? xoxoMAe
I reply: on 10/10/12 at 5:26 PM: Mae, I'm an RN with over eleven years working trauma/ER. I'm a switch and like to Domme and have been active in the BDSM lifestyle and community for over a decade. I'm curious as to how you're going about this and what you would need from me? Give me more of what the parameters are.... All online, how often, who are the subs? What level of attention are they needing? All fetishes?
Mae: on 10/11/12 at 6:55 AM: Thanks for your questions. Is it something we can perhaps chat about? It's easier to discuss than explain. I have yahoo under the same SN as here. If that will not work, reply here and let me know and we'll figure something else out.xoxo Mae
My reply: on 10/11/12 at 7:30 AM: Mae, I messaged you on yahoo, I'm giggle.juice there. I'm at work and back and forth so I'll get a notification if you message me but feel free to add in what you can about what you're seeking, and wanting from me
The following is the yahoo convo:on 10/11/2012 around 11 am
missmaepdx: ill be here
giggle.juice: alright I have the desk to myself for a mo
missmaepdx: how long?
giggle.juice: oh about the next hour til I take my lunch
giggle.juice: and I can do more then one thing at once lol
missmaepdx: k, so our little discipline club intrigues you?
giggle.juice: it does
giggle.juice: I wonder how you go about it
missmaepdx: it's focus is cbt, are you open to that?
missmaepdx: sorry for the delay, ended a few conversations so I could focus
giggle.juice: not a problem
giggle.juice: yes I have done CBT I enjoy it
missmaepdx: ok, so I'll tell you a basic cbt position and you tell me what you think ok? for reference, are you familiar with a basic hogtie?
giggle.juice: yes
giggle.juice: I'm novice but not beginner in ropes
missmaepdx: ok, so it's basically a hogtie, wrists behind back, ankles tied together, but instead of wrists tied to ankles, the cock and balls are tied off with rope, and that rope is attached to the ankles
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giggle.juice: right, so struggling tightens and tugs the cock n balls, also effective is standing tied with a gag attached, making them shake their head yes or no in response to tug ... but I get what you're saying
missmaepdx: it's strict, and with an anal plug included, even better. So sarah and I have trained a couple of deserving guys how to tie it, less the hands. so they get into position, and we supervise their discipline on the phone, verbal degradation is part of it, they are VERY docile and clearly in pain.
giggle.juice: right so you and sarah are Dommes over the phone for a few men,all men who like CBT?
missmaepdx: what we want to do more of his have men sentenced to hard time in the position that they work off for their domme. So let's say you take on one of them. You sentence him to a firm sentence and he works it off over time, hour here, 90 minutes there, does that make sense/
giggle.juice: yes time tables for penance
missmaepdx: i wouldn't say they like cbt, they know they need punishment and they are willing to accept this form.
giggle.juice: right, so not just CBT sluts but submissive men wanting women to rule them
missmaepdx: right, and who are willing to suffer to please you, make no mistake, an hour in that position gets painful
missmaepdx: 90 minutes even better
missmaepdx: feel sadistic, go 2 hours or so
giggle.juice: right,so how do you meet them? all online and by phone?
missmaepdx: online at first, we actually target doms who we think can be flipped easily, for me it's more fun to do this to a "dom"
giggle.juice: ah so you're looking for those with a switchable side
missmaepdx: yes, but when we're done with them, we want them a subbie mess, that's where the strictness of the position comes in, the hard time, the pain, and the time with an anal plug in their ass
giggle.juice: and also the after care
giggle.juice: so do they seek you out?
missmaepdx: not really, it's easy to find them, we list ourselves as switches, reply to emails of interest and then see how flippable they are
missmaepdx: would you have time in your schedule to do weekly sessions of no more than 2 hours (unless you really are in the mood to hurt them)?
giggle.juice: and you do all this just for yourself? its just a club of switchy Dommes who bend doms
missmaepdx: I think once you heard what it sounds like over the phone, could become more of an addiction
giggle.juice: oh Mae, I've done it before and do enjoy doing it, I was wondering if you had worked out a score or something?
giggle.juice: since you're doing it for kicks and not for money, or if you've made it a competition?
giggle.juice: there's also the joy of doing it in a conference call and forcing them to submit to more then one woman at a time really humiliating them as a group
missmaepdx: yea, we haven't done so much of that because schedules are diff for everyone,
missmaepdx: for me it's about quanitity, I'm talking to another domme right now who is going to take one on, she wants his initial sentence to be 24 hours
giggle.juice: well you're in oregon so at least we are the same time zone
giggle.juice: I wouldn't be able to give more then two to three hours at most to one person, I'm an RN I work five days a week and raise my kid
missmaepdx: but you like the idea of weekly times? longer total sentence?
giggle.juice: sure, why not? I already play with men
missmaepdx: i rarely go over 2 hours in the position unless I'm feeling particularly
sadistic, os you can even just do an hour at a time with some aftercare, and it wouldn't take up a lot of your time
giggle.juice: so I think being joined up isn't so hard
giggle.juice: so you only seeking out men on CM?
missmaepdx: pretty much, and we have a few now who are trained, but not under sentence, so that's why I have been asking girls about it
giggle.juice: ah I would reach out if I were you ladies, there's more sites then CM
missmaepdx: i know, but let's focus on what I am asking of you
giggle.juice: fair enough,you're asking me to humiliate dominate and subjegate doms online and over the phone and make them suffer with pain and anguish and some cbt
missmaepdx: well, unforunate for them, the cbt is a big part of it, but yes, be firm with them verbally, see yourself as disciplinarian carrying our your sentence
missmaepdx: what kind of overall sentence would please you (time)
giggle.juice: well I would take a bit to know the person and what drives them, suggest they walk me through how they would treat a submissive and then Id sweet talk them into doing some of the things they suggested as they do to a girl and cajole them into getting kinkier, over turning it on them by example, I bet you've never open handed slapped your cock shaft have you? Id love to hear you do it, see if you like it, and since you like it you should do it again because its turning me on and go from there into tit for tat until I get down to chastising them and making them want to please me by doing what I want them to
missmaepdx: thats not really what we're doing though, this is more about the position, time
giggle.juice: well if you already have some one established who is already signed up for time to spend, then its easier, but I'd need to know what has been used on them before and where their 'sweet spots' are otherwise it's like scripted and less fun
missmaepdx: it is a bit scripted, so maybe it isn't a good fit
giggle.juice: so you have a subbie, he's an older man, is really responsive to name calling and degradation but is a complete wimp for pain. so you go about making him tether his balls n cock and crawl about licking some sticky substance off the floor while making him smack his own ass you name call the entire time and he's ready to cum so then you torture his cock and his balls and stave off the orgasm still verbally demeaning him then you have him fuck his ass to excite himself again
giggle.juice: orgasm denial 101... I suppose
giggle.juice: all of this lasts about 40 minutes until you have him crying snotting and begging for release
missmaepdx: this conversation is over
missmaepdx: I don't think you're a girl
missmaepdx is typing...
missmaepdx: bye
giggle.juice: hold on here how do you think I'm not a girl?
giggle.juice: that's a very odd thing to say! it seems to me you have someone more experienced asking too many questions so you bolt because you don't know how to answer, or you're pushing me to describe more so you can use my own words as your role plays....well you're right I don't think I'm interested in furthering your agenda in using men online for you own machinations in some type of strange 'club', just so you know I will be posting this online so more people can see what you're doing! have a lovely day
