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So here is the deal, I am a fairly successful individual, whose career forces me to be in charge. I like it, but it is very, very stressful and therefore has a tendency to wear on me. And while I have a successful job, I am lacking in many other areas of my life. Things that I want to change, but haven't been able to.

What I need is a strong hand. Someone who understands when to be gentle and patient, and when to be forceful. I am looking for a teacher as well, someone who will help me explore my more submissive side, and who will also help me open my eyes to what it means to be dominant as well.

I am not looking for financial domination. I am also not STRICTLY looking for an online gig either. I am also not looking for something that is strictly short term. I want to meet people that I can develop a relationship with.

Obviously I am sure that you have questions, and so if you do, please feel free to ask them and I will do my best to answer.

Love hurts...if you do it right... 

 

Officially my new motto...now I just need to design a tattoo to go with it and I'll be set. But, as a motto what does it mean.

 

Well let's break it down. In it's simplest form, love is the most pure, most violent, and most painful emotion that one person can experience. To experience true love, a person must be willing to lower their barriers and expose themselves, to lay all of themselves and all of their flaws bare before the other person. In this raw state, it is easy to be hurt, t be rejected, to be spurned. To have your flaws and the essence of who you are criticized.

 

But it is also much more than that.

 

True love is work, and it requires constant care and attention. It must be nurtured, and fed. Love requires constant attention, and anyone who tells you otherwise has never really felt true love.

 

But love is also about a willingness to submit to the desires, the needs, and the wants of another as much as it is about dominating your own desires, wants, and needs. Love is pain, and without that pain, without that dull ache in our hearts, we would not know that we were alive, let alone the true happiness that comes from loving someone and being loved by someone...

Honestly people! Take the time to do your research. Not all submissive men are going to drop down to their knees just because you put Mistress, Queen or Goddess in your name. Take the time to get to know me and find out my needs and desires. I will more than willingly serve you in whatever capacity that you see fit for me to serve in, but I want to know that I am cared for, even if that isn't always known or obvious.

 

I will not bow or submit to anyone who has not earned the right to be called Mistress, Queen, or Goddess. 

Been a while since I have been on this site, or even updated my profile...  Maybe it's time. 

If you are looking for a slave to serve you Financially, or want tributes from me, keep on moving. I'm not here to support you financially, got out and get a job if you want nice things, don't expect a guy to buy them for you. And as far as tributes... I will give gifts to a Domme who deserves to receive gifts. And that will be a Domme to whom I already serve, and has treated me well. Not just because someone asks.
01-April-2010 Doms and Dommes that are considering contacting me, understand that I am not looking for an online relationship where you Dominate me on Cam. I am not submissive enough to do that. You want to Dominate me it needs to be done in person. And don't just message me asking for my AIM or YIM user ID. Tell me why I should submit to you. Make me want to get on my knees and worship.