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	Hello to all I am a interested in meeting both submissive and slaves. I am lookiing for females between 18 and 40, in good physical condition and STD free. I am primaraly looking in Wisconsin. If you are from another state we can talk on here to get to know each other but at some point I expect you to visit and hopefully relocate. I am also willing to relocate....and we will talk more about that later. I am older(38) and hopefully you will not be scared or intimidated by that. I have alot of experience being in the lifestyle for going on 20 years now. Being older isn't something to fear since I am not a novice. I respect your use of safewords, and also your limits. Although I will push your limits so that you may grow as a sub/slave, I respect your hard limits and will not push those. I would like to find females that don't mind serving with more than one sub/slave in the household. And there are advantages to having multiple subs/slaves for both you and I. I also welcome any sub/slave which wants to talk to me about the lifestyle. I value both friendship and also the opportunity to share my knowledge with you, even if you do not wish to serve me. I will also mentor and protect a sub/slave and guide them in finding a good Master if the choose not to serve me.

****THIS IS A WARNING TO ALL FELLOW DOMINANTS OUT THERE**** Not too long ago I contacted a sub on here. At that time her profile was called "subbiebyheart". Things began well enough, but as we chatted it was clear that she had no grasp on what it meant to be a sub. She was disrespectful of me and the lifestyle. She attempted to Top from the bottom and could not follow the simplest order. She said she wanted to get to know each other, but when I tried to chat with her, either via E-mail or via Messangers she wouldn't. Since then she has deleted her profile. I suspect the reason behind that was not because she could not commt to the lifestyle as she said but was really because she had been abusive to other Doms and needed a new profile because everyone ignored her old one. I too ignored her profile and Messanger attempts. Since then she has created a new profile, "Desirable69". She claims in this profile that she was not ready before but is now, to commit to the D/s lifestyle. I had decided to give her a rare "second chance." That was a mistake. She had not grown any, All I recieved was more of the same as before. She wouldn't talk to me on Messanger, she only wanted to talk by phone. She insisted that we talk via phone. Again Topping from the bottom. If she cannot talk on Messangers, what kind of conversation can I expect from her on the phone? She also made accusations and disrespected me, which I will not tolerate. I am well respeceted both in the vanilla as well as the D/s community. So a warning to all Dominants out there....place her profile on ignore. Block her emails, unless you like dealing with disrespectful, rude, and vulgar subs. Again her new profile is Desirable69.

Well here I go again. Another journal entry. This one is about Mail. For a while there I could understand why some girls would use filters, but no more. As a Dominant Male it's really fun to sit here and read profiles, then to write long emails to the girls introducing yourself, telling about yourself both normal lifestyle and D/s lifestyle related. Then come to check to see if the emails have been read and see that they have been marked "Deleted Unread". I guess the girls on this site just think that all Dominant Men on here have that sorta time to waste. Well we don't. Many of us are serious on here. We don't waste time in our personal or professional lives. So girls, you can't complain when a Dominant Male writes you a one or two line message. And it seems to you that's all you ever recieve. Plain and simple we are all tired of writing long emails just to have them snubbed and ignored and deleted by you girls. By the way if you noticed that I didn't refer to the females as subs or slaves there is a reason. I will no longer be refering to the females on this site as subs or slaves but only as girls. Since it seems they act and have the mentality of little girls then they should be treated as such. They are unworthy of the designation of submissive or slave. That is something you have to earn and with some of these little girls on here they will never get that far. I will also no longer be writing long emails but only dropping a few lines to those girls that interest me. My time is too precious to waste on something that will be deleted. So if you girls out there even bother to read this.....it's your own damn fault if you only get one or two line emails. You have no one to blame but your stuck up selves.

Besides seeking as sub/slave for my own, I am also looking for subs/slaves who would care to attend munches on a regular basis and play parties occasionally when they are scheduled. If your a new sub/slave this is a great opportunity for you to learn more about our lifestyle. In the past I have rarely attended such events because I do not care to attend if I do not have someone to acompany me. It's just boring going out anywhere alone, normal events or those in our lifestyle. So if your interested send me a message on here and we can talk about it and I can give you more details as to what usually happens at both events.

I haven't been on in a while, but I am back. I see nothing has changed though. I kinda wonder if any of the "subs and slaves" are actually looking for a Dominant man or if they are just looking for a boyfriend or worse yet just screwing around. I am VERY SERIOUS when it comes to seeking a sub or slave. I also wonder if sometimes age is a barrier. Which again just tells me that the sub/slave isn't too serious. While younger Dominants may have the rock hard abs and chiseled features. What they lack is experience and control. They let their hormones do the talking. And in their lack of control they don't have the very thing most subs/slaves claim they want, to be dominated. But having a great deal of experience can also intimidate a novice or younger sub/slave. I have been told in the past that my experience has frightened a few. This should not be. While, yes, I do have more experience, it is tempered and has been put to the test. So I know what and how to do things and also how fast or slow to progress. I know that with newer more novice subs/slaves not to go full speed since that can lead to overload or burnout. A final reason, I guess, that I have not had too much luck on here is because I do not have a pic or pics on my profile. There are some very good reasons for this. One, I have a good job which if someone from work found my pic and profile on here I could lose that situation. Two, I have a life outside of the D/s lifestyle, a vanilla life if you wanna call it that. I have friends and family that if they knew about this would most definately not be understanding, like many people in wisconsin. I really would like to find a girl who wants to be a sub/slave. That is someone who has decided they wanna be in the D/s lifestyle. I have in the past tried to get "regular or vanilla" girls to become subs or slaves with little or no success since the really didn't understand the lifestyle, even when explained to them. So with that I will continue my search. Hopefully this has made some sense to some of you and maybe some of you have taken this to heart.

Well I have been on this site for a while now, have been having a hard time gettin female subs and slaves to even respond back to my emails. I would imagine that it is not due to anything on my part, but on the part of others out there, and ya know who you are. I have read profiles and journal entries time and time again on female subs and slaves pages that say they are flooded with emails from males. I would wish that those of you out there that have this auto-email capability to just turn it off. Your giving the rest us, those truely interested in these beauties, a bad name and reputation. And you are also scaring off many females out there from the lifestyle. And to those female subs/slaves out there I have a bit of advice. When you create a profile on here, turn off your emails for a while. It might stop you from getting that unwanted flood of disconcerting letters from wannabes and fakes that are just looking for a one night stand. One other piece of advice for the females sub/slaves on this site....don't be afraid to email a dominant guy. Just cause your submissive doesn't mean you can't show some initiative and contact us first. I know this doesn't apply to all of you female subs/slaves out there but it does apply to a few. So I hope you take and learn from these words of wisdom. I know you females will, the males on the other hand will hate what I wrote here. And I guess that it is too bad that they cannot grow and learn, cause that is a big part of this lifestyle. With all that said I hope I will hear from some of you soon.

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