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Im an experienced and warm professional bisexual, polyamorous woman who has been involved inWIITWD for about 16 years.I enjoy service, Daddygirl relationship dynamics, hot wax, knives, impact play (thud followed by sting, please!), bondage, cocksucking, spanking, rough body play, juicy oranges and good chocolate (but not together), relaxing with a few drinks, movies, cooking, healthy eating, sterling silver earrings and new bottles of nailpolish, date nights, playing pool and dancing to live music,and of course hot and intense fucking.
Oh yeah, I tend to be interested in intelligent conversation andexploring who we are as human beings, too.
I list myself as a switch, but the reality is that Ilean towards dominance with women and submission with men. Its all about the individual relationships and the energy between two people. Ive been Maam to some,Saff and even saffy to others over the years.
I am passionate about teaching, language and literacy education, childrens literature, relationships, and being a spark of kindness in a weary world.I dont smoke. Im still overweight, but Im healthy. I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and aggression, but those things do not define or confine me.
I am a real person with passions and the usual issues (health, family, pets, friends, careers, getting rear-ended during a snowstorm, chores and house repairs in progress, etc.).
If youre likeminded and similarly looking for adventurous but sane friends, good conversation, a bit of flirtation, etc., feel free to send me a message. If youre looking for your One, I cant be it, but I wish you luck in finding him or her. )
A PS to ladies looking for a service top, my partner Nakedsenses is looking for bottoms for afternoon playtime. You can find his profile here on collarspace (unless he has it off). Feel free to send him a message. )
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A PS to ladies looking for a service top, my partner Nakedsenses is looking for a special bottom for playtime. You can find his profile here on collarspace to read more about it. Feel free to send him a message (or me, if you want to check with me) :) |
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I'm feeling thankful that Spring is finally here. It's been a long, cold, weird winter. |
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Went to Studio 58 last weekend with NS and had a fantastic time! I highly recommend the facility! :) |
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Hooray for Friderday! :) :) |
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Countdown to summer vacation. Yayyyyy! |
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"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." ~Khalil Gibran |
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This whole "empty nest" thing is pretty damn awesome. |
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Being snuggled in bed with the one you love is so awesome. :) |
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"Sometimes....my need to be loved is so great and vast that if you put your ear to my heart you could hear the ocean." ~Excerpt from "Practical Magic" |
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“I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.” ~Mahatma Ghandi |
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“If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth, only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin, and in the end, despair.” ~C.S. Lewis
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"The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love." ~Henry Miller |
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...My object in living is to unite My avocation and my vocation As my two eyes make one in sight. Only where love and need are one, And the work is play for mortal stakes, Is the deed ever really done For Heaven and the future's sakes.
~Robert Frost, from "Two Tramps in Mud Time"
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Don't She Glow
Don't she glow
in the burning night
blowtorch breath
searing my neck
her hungry mouth
poised to feast
Don't she glow
a crazy moon
careening wild
side to side
venus pendulum
laughing loud
Don't she glow
burning bright
in eternal hunger
bound so tight
in shifting tides
of sweet release
Don't she glow
rocking to and fro
dancing slow
riding a wave
of pure delight
into the dawn.
~W.I. Boucher
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"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. " ~Isabel Allende
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Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken, rather than to try and hurt yourself putting it back together. And love, love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness, errors, and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds: weariness, witherings, and tarnishings. |
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Silver-Lined Heart By Taylor Mali
I’m for reckless abandon and spontaneous celebrations of nothing at all, like the twin flutes I kept in the trunk of my car in a box labeled Emergency Champagne Glasses!
Raise an unexpected glass to long, cold winters and sweet hot summers and the beautiful confusion of the times in between. To the unexpected drenching rain that leaves you soaking wet and smiling breathless; “We danced in the garden in torn sheets in the rain,” we were christened in the sanctity of the sprinkler, can’t you hear it singing out its Hallelujah?
Here’s to the soul-expanding power of the simply beautiful.
See, things you hate, things you despise, multinational corporations and lies that politicians tell, injustices that make you mad as hell, that’s all well and good. And as far as writing poems goes, I guess you should. It just might be a poem that gets Mumia released, brings an end to terrorism or peace in the middle east.
But as far as what soothes me, what inspires and moves me, honesty behooves me to tell you your rage doesn’t move me. See, like the darkest of clouds my heart has a silver lining, which does not harken to the loudest whining, but beats and stirs and grows ever more when I learn of the things you’re actually for.
That’s why I’m for best friends, long drives, and smiles, nothing but the sound of thinking for miles. For the unconditional love of dogs: may we learn the lessons of their love by heart. For therapy when you need it, and poetry when you need it. And the wisdom to know the difference.
The solution to every problem usually involves some kind of liquid, even if it’s only Emergency Champagne or running through the sprinkler. Can’t you hear it calling you?
I’m for crushes not acted upon, for admiration from afar, for the delicate and the resilient and the fragile human heart, may it always heal stronger than it was before. For walks in the woods, and for the woods themselves, by which I mean the trees. Definitely for the trees. Window seats, and locally brewed beer, and love letters written by hand with fountain pens: I’m for all of these.
I’m for evolution more than revolution unless you’re offering some kind of solution.
I’m for the courage it takes to volunteer, to say “yes,” “I believe,” and “I will.” For the bright side, the glass half full, the silver lining, and the optimists who consider darkness just a different kind of shining.
So don’t waste my time and your curses on verses about what you are against, despise, and abhor. Tell me what inspires you, what fulfills and fires you, put your precious pen to paper and tell me what you’re for!
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You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. - Kahlil Gibran |
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"To listen closely and reply well is the highest perfection we are able to attain in the art of conversation."
-- Francois de La Rochefoucauld |
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" And she flies, not as a kite to my string, but as the hawk to my glove" ~Author Unknown |
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"The sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional, psychic, or intellectual, forms a bridge between the sharers which can be the basis for understanding much of what is not shared between them, and lessens the threat of their difference." - Audre Lorde |
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I just want to have a fit.... and I just want to be strong and do the work that I know has to be done... and I just want to cry and be held. |
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Dear Prudence (Lennon/McCartney)
Dear Prudence, won't you come out to play Dear Prudence, greet the brand new day The sun is up, the sky is blue It's beautiful and so are you Dear Prudence won't you come out to play
Dear Prudence open up your eyes Dear Prudence see the sunny skies The wind is low the birds will sing That you are part of everything Dear Prudence won't you open up your eyes?
Look around round Look around round round Look around
Dear Prudence let me see you smile Dear Prudence like a little child The clouds will be a daisy chain So let me see you smile again Dear Prudence won't you let me see you smile?
Dear Prudence, won't you come out to play Dear Prudence, greet the brand new day The sun is up, the sky is blue It's beautiful and so are you Dear Prudence won't you come out to play |
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unzip my body......take my heart out |
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Cry great tears oh womanchild Shed your love on your pillow each night Someday His love will fall like rain upon you And your tears will be tears of joy ~saffron
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Ambiguity means admitting more than one response to a situation and allowing yourself to be aware of those contradictory responses. You may want something and fear it at the same time. You may find it both beautiful and ugly.
- Tristine Rainer |
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Submit
She folds and folds and tucks herself inside herself not regression but submission she suspects that anger is ten thousand times her weight but she calculates that her compassion outweighs the universe still, she acquiesces holding space for two year¹s worth of someone else¹s hostility and for a brief, palm-held, magical moment she lifts off the page writing herself out of this toxic script spellbound by the mere philosophical premise that this world turbulent in its self-righteousness challenging in its destructive tendencies surpasses a limited dualistic paradigm by summoning in limitless tolerance relentless understanding and empathy and a beauty beyond all imaginings but only if we allow it only if we believe it
Sounds so simple on paper.
-Wendy-O Matik |
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Poem For People That Are Understandably Too Busy To Read Poetry by Stephen Dunn
Relax. This won't last long. Or if it does, or if the lines make you sleepy or bored, give in to sleep, turn on the T.V., deal the cards. This poem is built to withstand such things. Its feelings cannot be hurt. They exist somewhere in the poet, and I am far away. Pick it up anytime. Start it in the middle if you wish. It is as approachable as melodrama, and can offer you violence if it is violence you like. Look, there's a man on a sidewalk; the way his leg is quivering he'll never be the same again. This is your poem and I know you're busy at the office or the kids are into your last nerve. Maybe it's sex you've always wanted. Well, they lie together like the party's unbuttoned coats, slumped on the bed waiting for drunken arms to move them. I don't think you want me to go on; everyone has his expectations, but this is a poem for the entire family. Right now, Budweiser is dripping from a waterfall, deodorants are hissing into armpits of people you resemble, and the two lovers are dressing now, saying farewell. I don't know what music this poem can come up with, but clearly it's needed. For it's apparent they will never see each other again and we need music for this because there was never music when he or she left you standing on the corner. You see, I want this poem to be nicer than life. I want you to look at it when anxiety zigzags your stomach and the last tranquilizer is gone and you need someone to tell you I'll be here when you want me like the sound inside a shell. The poem is saying that to you now. But don't give anything for this poem. It doesn't expect much. It will never say more than listening can explain. Just keep it in your attache case or in your house. And if you're not asleep by now, or bored beyond sense, the poem wants you to laugh. Laugh at yourself, laugh at this poem, at all poetry. Come on:
Good. Now here's what poetry can do.
Imagine yourself a caterpillar. There's an awful shrug and, suddenly, You're beautiful for as long as you live. |
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Outpouring
Darkness
Heat
Whimpered cries
She lay naked, on a table covered with white linen
The spattering of colored wax dropping like summer rain onto
The swell of her breasts and tummy
Hardening onto creamy white thighs
Intermingling with fat droplets of crimson blood
His steady hand guided the scalpel
The Cutting precise
Flesh nearly glowing, trembling now
She is His human canvas
He stands above her, now holding the slender stems of wax
Controlling the fire
Creating the tremble
His other hand inside of her, holding her captive
To her orgasm
Her bottom rising and falling against the table gingerly, rhythmically
Red lashes and welts, fresh from the belt, decorate her body
He is her beloved creator of pain
She has come here to make her offering
To receive her cleansing
The pain she is given is the pain that heals her
The pouring out of sweat, blood, cum, tears
Outpouring ~Saffron |
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You Come Too Late
You come too late. My need for you has gone; For I have triumphed over time and pain. And learned of sorrow how to stand alone And smile and face the world again. My soul the wine, my heart the broken bread. You feasted lightly and as lightly went, and left me here with something in me dead. My life is empty now and cleansed of grief; I rise again - the pride of life is strong, And in the place of love and old belief, Courage goes marching with a merry song. Come in, my friend, but do not hope to find A trace of anything you left behind.
- George Pink Robertson |
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"Rememberance" - Maya Angelou
Your hands easy weight, teasing the bees hived in my hair, your smile at the slope of my cheek. On the occasion, you press above me, glowing, spouting readiness, mystery rapes my reason
When you have withdrawn your self and the magic, when only the smell of your love lingers between my breasts, then, only then, can I greedily consume your presence. |
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On Love by Rumi
Make yourself a morsel,
So that love can eat you.
As you are now, you're too sour,
and too large!
Break yourself into pieces!
ooooooooooooooooooooooo
The way of love is not
A subtle argument.
The door there is devastation.
Birds make great sky-circles
Of their freedom.
How do they learn it?
They fall, and falling,
They're given wings.
God turns you from one feeling to another
And teaches by means of opposites
So that you will have two wings to fly,
Not one.
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
In the slaughterhouse of love
They kill only the best,
None of the weak or deformed.
Don't run away from this dying.
Whoever's not killed for love is dead meat.
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April is National Poetry Month. Set a poem free today:
Introduction to Poetry
- I ask them to take a poem
- and hold it up to the light
- like a color slide
- or press an ear against its hive.
- I say drop a mouse into a poem
- and watch him probe his way out,
- or walk inside the poem's room
- and feel the walls for a light switch.
- I want them to waterski
- across the surface of a poem
- waving at the author's name on the shore.
- But all they want to do
- is tie the poem to a chair with rope
- and torture a confession out of it.
- They begin beating it with a hose
- to find out what it really means.
~Billy Collins
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