Saezure

Some people find it easier to attempt to point the finger in situations they've ruined.  Furthermore, An adult will examine the situation truthfully. Even if that means that they find themself at fault.  To you (and you know who you are), last time I checked, adults don't waste their time calling someone names.  Perhaps you should think about who's truly childish.  It was once said, "We do not hate as long as we still attach a lesser value, but only when we attach an equal or a greater value." - Nietzsche    And to go a step further...,"A small mind thinks of people, while a great mind thinks of ideas." - Nietzsche

Some find it easier to point a finger than face their own problems.  It is when you are not at your best when your vision is blurred and actions become irrational.  To truly find something disagreeable, you must first weigh the pros and cons.  If you cannot manage to do this, then where is the validity in your choice?  To wedge false issues between yourself and One who cares about you, shows that your internal problems are more pronounced than you care to notice.  ...How can you truly pass judgement on A/anyone, when you cannot face yourself?