I'm a dom who has actively participated with various subs on and off for the past decade. For me, female subs are what make life worthwhile! Just being greeted with "Sir" by one in a chat room puts me on cloud nine.
I am not a dom who takes himself too seriously or who delights in creating drama. I don't preach, and I think it's silly to pass moral judgment on somebody's BDSM style. We're all consenting adults here, right? That's the only sensible position to take.
It's hard to generalize about my tastes in women. For example I like demure, respectful subs, subs with sunny dispositions who charm me with their shy feminine modesty.
On the other hand, I also like impudent sluts that need taming and like it rough! There is nothing wrong with a sub misbehaving, as long as she understands that it is the role of the dom to correct her misbehaviour!