I am a Top, someone who exerts sensual control.
Submission is not about being passive or giving up because you are weak.
My ideal submissive is a lady with a lot of imagination, intelligence, wit, who is not totally comfortable with everything that I will be doing (pushing her limits) or wants to learn and experiment.
I enjoy trying to figure out what you need, what you want, what you keep as a secret deep within, then use this information to tease, stimulate, torture, play, until you can not help but feel the sexual power within.
I get an erotic rush when I control someone sexually.
Picture is 5 years old. add more grey.. and a little thinner on the top.. but the evil glint in the eye stays