? Daddy Dom type...Training is a process, not an act.
Training can be educational, as well as fulfilling, you can learn a great deal about yourself.
I particularly specialize in individual needs and desires. In the past I have trained forced sex and service scenarios, and I also like to explore my sub's far edges with play. Sensory deprivation, orgasm training, pain tolerance training (if she desires of course) and rope play are also very high on my skills list.
I am a Master looking for a submissive that longs to be truly trained......not a doormat, or a quick lay!
Hopefully you know the difference....
I consider myself to be extremely and profoundly good at DOMINATION of the right person, the person who is serious about their growth. I care about my sub's desires and needs, it is not all about me...it is about a mutual reciprocal relationship.
I am actually not interested in having sex as much as making a friend, having a student, and then possible consensual safe training.Of course this is after a good rapport is established. I know it is hard to believe that sex is secondary to me in this "lifestyle," but if you know enough about this process then you will understand what I mean.
Sex is something I view in a different realm from this, although this is a "sexual" endeavor. I am very reserved about letting myself out for a relationship on that higher level. Not to say that I am against a Master/sub sexual relationship, but as a rule I am not into casual sex at all. In my eyes the domination and training of a sub has little to do with my personal sexual gratification.
I also like to think that I understand the mind of the sub. I say that because I started my journey in this lifestyle as a sub, but it was soon evident that I was topping from the bottom. Since then I have taken the time to truly identify why I am so "into" what I do. There is a part of the sub that longs to serve, and I identify greatly with that trait. The exchange of power (for me) is viewed not only as a gift but as a huge responsibility. I cherish the gift that a sub gives to me, and try to never take advantage of that gift. I try to fulfill my sub's desires and know what she needs, and when she needs it. I strive to see in her what she may not even know she wants, or has buried so deeply that only the highest level of trust and training can uncover. That takes honesty, and an ability to connect. That is what I strive for...the ultimate, and ever important connection.
I have been involved in the lifestyle for at least seventeen years now. I started to seriously explore this side of myself like many others did,when I bought my first net capable computer in college. I started to explore the net, and learn about other people who had similar interests to mine. Back then I was with a woman who didn't understand my desires, and soon we grew apart.
I choose not to live a full 24/7 "bondage lifestyle". But I do enjoy a great deal of what it has to offer. Training scenarios may be prolonged to include service, but not all day every day of my life. That does not mean that my sig other cannot be my 24/7 sub...she is also my equal. Once she earns it she wears a collar, just not all the time.
So....if you agree, please email me. I want to engage you in conversation. You never know if we might click. Life is a journey, you must embrace it or be left behind.
I am looking for friends, people to talk to....so send me an email if you would like that. Although my tastes have refined and changed over time I do have "hard limits," we can discuss those later. Everything must be sane and consenting, and mutually fulfilling. I hope to hear from you soon.
Rex
To the three ladies I met on their way to the woodshed…. I
hope you enjoyed your evening. You all
seemed quite wonderful, and it was great to meet you……please send me a message
and let me know how your night went!
-Rex
As this year comes to an end and the new year creeps in I have to say....2009 flew by, and I hope nothing but he best for those who deserve it in 2010. This year I have experienced great joy, great loss, and lots of wonderful experiences. I don't regret a thing, and hope that the new year is much the same way.
Been working on my rope techniques,and my Dom techniques, honing skills, learning and spending time as to better exact my craft. I believe we are all students...and we all should continue to learn.
Thinking back to a training session quite a while back....I learned that sometimes the needs of a sub surprise me, even when I thought I knew the greater depths of my sub, she reached even deeper down, and found a new level of submission in her mind, and with her body...the key is to never underestimate anyone, and pay close attention to when changes may occur. This keeps you on the edge, and better able to Dom at a deeper level.
Here is my thought for the day. Submission as seen by me is a gift, the submissives heart is wide open, and the gift depends on the person, but it comes with the understanding that if it is given, it should never be taken advantage of. The submissive that gives that gift to me is to be honored, revered, and trained to my choosing, with the understanding that I will not overstep my bounds.....unless after a long engagement I believe it to be the right thing....but even that is a slippery slope. My hands are strong, yet under perfect direction they are also as a slilk scarf....smooth and deliberate.
What's funny is that after I posted yesterday about being frustrated about the abundance of "fakies", I find a ray of hope.....isn't it always the way?
Is anyone the real thing here? Just when you meet someone you think has the potential to be special...you find out that they are just playing, GRRRRRRRR!
