I am a long time dominant. I am married to a vanilla, if that is a problem pass me by. I seek singles or couples for play partners both or with one watching. I enjoy on line sharing with partners I have physically enjoyed. Bondage, tease and denial, gentle quiet force, hair pulling, are all favorites. Body types are not generally an issue. big women are a plus No smoking or drinking..... hygene is critical, disease free but clean as well...discretion is paramount. Ds has a much higher level of communication than vanilla....you should know that and demonstrate it.