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Female Dominant, 33, bronx, New York
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Female Dominant, 34, jacksonville, Florida
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Dominant Couple, 47, Ava, Missouri
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About MistresStern
I am looking for the right woman to live with me as my slave.
Note: If you're male, you're not who I'm looking for. This should be obvious, since on my profile it says Lesbian and specifies that I'm looking for submissive women.
Update: If I'm interested, I'll ask you to phone me, very soon. If you are unwilling to do so, I'll conclude you're probably a fake.
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I have two cats. I love my cats. I enjoy watching them play out their dominance issues on each other.Plus, cuddle time and purring and petting...
But...
Listen, kitten.
Get this clear,
This is my chair,
I sit here.
Okay, kitty,
We can share:
When I'm not home
It's your chair.
Listen, cat.
How about
If I use it
When you're out?
...there are some things that are a waste of time. Trying to be a cat's Domme is one of them.
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Moving right along to my requirements for the human members of my household...
Who is the right woman?
She shares my interests. She likes cats (I have two). She's not into drama or dressing up or being a brat.
I won't be your Mummy (or your Daddy) or your Dominatrix or your Goddess.
I'll be your owner. You will be my slave. You will wear my collar, accept my discipline, satisfy me sexually, receive pleasure at my whim, and kneel at my side.
You will not be someone who rushes madly in and promises eternal slavery at once. I won't consider someone like that trustworthy or reliable. You will, however, be prepared to offer evidence shortly after approaching me that you are female and genuine.
If you are serious about becoming my slave, we'll be exchanging phone numbers and discussing real world issues about how you may become a valued possession of mine: I am not interested in online roleplay.
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FYI: I'm currently not responding to emails very fast, due to real life issues. Unless you are male, rude, or a bad speller, I give my word I will respond to your email: but it could take up to a week. (I try not to be prejudiced against people who can't spell, because dyslexia does not in any way correlate with poor intelligence: but I will say if your email is badly spelled, you had better demonstrate your shining intelligence in the content.)
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Wow, it's cold. Just in from a cold, cold walk. It's freezing outdoors and I'm not into cold play.
My male cat, who is normally very butch about outdoor weather, stuck his nose outdoors and sneezed and went right back inside. My female cat, more sensibly, elected to spend the day on her chair. There's a Domme/sub couple... though they both wear collars. |
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There are a whole bloody horde of males on Collarme who seem to think this site was set up exclusively to cater to male needs - to their needs: that they need not bother to read the "sexual orientation" box on any profile they search, nor to find out if they are in any way what their target is looking for.
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From what I see on female submissive profiles, this problem exists for all lesbians on Collarme: Dommes get pestered by submissive men, submissives get pestered by Doms.
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Here's my strategy: if you're a male and you send me a pestering message, you may get a reply explaining what's wrong with your behaviour, but you will be blocked from sending me any more messages.
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I am willing to share my list of blocked names with other lesbians, and willing to block names other lesbians let me know about.
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If you're a male - Dominant or submissive - and you find this behaviour embarrassing for your gender, you too can join the campaign: pledge yourself never to e-mail any woman, submissive or Dominant, whose sexual orientation is lesbian or who is looking for exclusively female partners. You needn't bother to pester me with e-mails to say you're doing this, though.
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