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First clarification: I am passively looking for someone. 

I am not going to pursue you if you have no interest.  I am not going to aggressively attempt to convince you that I am better than some one else.  I am not going to endlessly harass you into contacting me.  If I am not of interest, that?s fine.  If ?friends? is all that is acceptable, that?s fine.  I would rather wait for the connection than be the slut. 

Second Clarification: I am looking for someone.

I will be distracted in observation of those I find attractive.  I will engage in negotiations with those that I find worthy of my time.  I will have conversations with any one on most any subject.  Negotiations include but are not limited to hanging out, dinner, movies, trips to various stores or activities, public play, Private Play.  I will not be contacting any one for a quickie.

Collars: Protection & training

Many of my associates do not believe in these.  I see them as a tool for education and decision making.  The Master or Mistress on the other end of this collar is the person you are learning from and is the one mentoring you and helping you find a suitable Master or Mistress.  It is the responsibility of the Master or Mistress of said color to dictate and negotiate who the wearer of the collar may play with.  The reason behind this is simple the Master or Mistress knows the scene, the people involved better than the wearer.  The Master or Mistress should have the collared submissive?s best interest in mind at all times.  Beyond that a collar is a collar.

Collars: Collar / Collared     (Typical)

This is the traditional Collar.  The wearer is indicating ?Hands off? ?I have given myself to someone, not you?.  General indicates a committed relationship, Play, Service, and in most case?s sexual service. 

Collar: Decoration    (Beautiful and very confusing) 

This is a collar worn by a single submissive for them to indicate there submission / willingness to submit.  They have no Master or Mistress to report too.  But you do not know that, how could you possibly know that. 

These statements are all my point of view.  The meaning or purpose of any collar is as different as a snow flake from one to the next.  My best advice is ask politely what it means to the wearer.  Think carefully on your next words as they might get you in a lot of trouble with someone you don?t even know.

Bisexual and Polly relationships

When you have decided to involve me in this, you might need a flow chart to follow along.  First is communication, then safety, then communication, then safety, then communication?.. You get the point.  Here it is, as a Master my key concern is your health and safety.  If you want to play with or have sex with some one else I have to consent to that happening.  In order for me consent I have to know the person and the persons they are involved with.  The first time is always the hard part, all the questions and the whys.  Simple, you would want my history before you played with me.  I want theirs.  I want to know that what is mine is safe.  I want to know that I am safe.  I want the other side of the coin to know that they are safe.  I want numbers and I will give numbers so that if any thing happens calls can be made.  It is safety and responsibility pure and simple.  Do not hide it.  Deceit is dangerous and causes drama.  No thanks.

If for some reason an individual from my past appears I have an active policy that the one that is ?present now? takes priority over all others regardless of desires from the past.  We had our opportunity and now It is time to give others their opportunity..

My Miss Stephanie

Yeah.

Things are going well for a change.

The group is growing slowly.

Work is steady.

I will be starting classes soon.
:)

Ok Lets try this again

Too much time has passed since I checked this profile regularly

I have updated some of the critical data

You will either like it or you won?t

Though I still have an interest in the house structure and concept,

My membership in a house has long since ended.

As things have progressed I have learned much about myself

The path I am on is rough but I am finaly accomplishing things

I have watched individuals that I love destroy there lives knowing that I could do nothing to stop it.  Friends have moved on, friends have passed, Children have been born, the wheel continues to turn. 

Time flys.  I realized that a year has allmost past since my last update. The Friday night Erotocracy meeting/classes are going well.  Like all groups we got off to a rough start.  I am no longer looking for anything.  I am just here. 

It has been some time since my last entry.  No mater.  I now Serve Lord Lyon and his house as Shieldman or Guardian.  Thru this service I have meet several other houses and assist them as Well.  Watching over all the Subs at Public activities.  No I don?t play, I protect and advise.  Something that I have done for many years in Mundane.

If you Found this I am Impressed.
If you Read This I am Stunned.