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WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
UPDATE : male submissives, I'm NOT INTERESTED IN TRAINING, TALKING NOR OWNING YOU. YOUR MAIL GOES TO BULK AND DELETED...
Time for a Change, too long I've kept this profile the same, while things changed for me.
I've gotten to the point where I don't even want to bother saying hello to someone because rather than being friendly, I get blocked before I can even say anything. So much for trying to be friendly and cordial to anyone on here. It's not worth it sometimes, so I'm keeping things focused on the friends I have here, at least I know they aren't going to be as rude as most of the others on here.
In case there is that rare jewel that's interested, I've left this portion of my original profile:
I've never been the jealous type except for a very small number of instances in My past. I don't believe in cutting you off from the Family and friends you had before becoming Mine, so they will still be a part of your life. Just remember that I may be accommodating towards your friends, but I still expect some portion of your non-working life. This is for those who want a long-term relationship and not just a casual fling. if you can't deal with the responsibilities of such an arrangement, you're welcome to move on.
Also, let me be clear about something. I have a career that has Me traveling from time to time covering sports. You don't have to know everything about sports to get in good with Me. Also, My career sometimes forces Me into late-night work sessions. If you can handle that, get back to Me |
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The thought occurred to my that I've been here almost seven years, so I decided to look at the number of people I've put on my favorites list that I bnever hear from anymore.I was shocked to realize that there are 114 pages of people, 85% of whom haven't been on in over a year or more.
So I'm going through those 114 pages and removing those whom I haven't heard from in a ton of years. I want to see how many people I can slice off my favorite lists. Obviously, the fakes and the empty profiles are getting cut for sure. I'll update after I'm done how many pages I cut.
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Well, something new to comment on. Lately, I've noticed that for some reason, I seem to have a number of female Dominants coming by to take a peek at my profile. I can't understand why but to the Dominant Sisterhood stopping by, Hello and nice to see you, feel free to Say hi there, If You're so inclined. |
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Boy just when I thought I had gotten my fill of the mugu-baiters from across the pond (look it up if you're not familiar with the term), Tonight, I get a message from someone saying hi. I am feeling like being a little friendly, so I respond and the next message tells me they're going to sleep and send them my Yahoo ID(which I no longer use) and phone number so "I can call you before we chat online."
Uh huh, right...
I really gotta applaud this one, I was trying to keep myself from laughing.
To quote a famous sport Radio caller, "keep trying weaklings" |
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I'm curious to know something from the site admins. If we recognize a fake profile, and report it using the automated reporting option, why is it that they still manage to stay on even after you've run the report manually a hundred times?
Last year, I chronicled a night where I spent two hours working over a cam scammer. Since that last entry, I've encountered no less than a dozen on here so far. Now I don't have to go through the ways to identify who they are, but lately they've been rather easy to spot.
You all already know how to tell if someone is a "mugu fisher," or a fake profile of someone in Nigeria trying to scam money, and I've actually seen a fake who took a photo right off of a site that advertises on here. They didn't even bother to crop the photo to remove the website's address on the lower left corner. Lazy...
Now lately, they've started to get smarter. A Few have not mentioned their email address in the Ya hew-type code that the truly clueless try to use to get past the approval checkers. Now in their first email they ask to add them to your email list so they can send you stuff and talk better.
Uh, Nope...
Keep trying, losers, I'll keep reporting you.
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God, I love stupid scammers. There are a bunch of them on here always trying to get someone to bite on their scam of being a sub or openly contacting you thinking we've forgotten the Nigerian Bank Scams and so on.
Right now there's one on here, I won't say who since I don't want to get banned (Hey, site Admins, message me and I'll give you the user name directly) However, she has a number of photos and she puts down her Yahoo and MSN ID's in order to be contacted directly, which is the FIRST sign that they're scamming you.
Now seeing as how I haven't pulled this in a while, II messaged the scammer on Yahoo and she gives me this song and dance about how she's working for some webcam company and we can hook up if I sign up. Okay the sirens were flashing like crazy when she said that.
So she tries to send me three websites to "log into and join" so she can put me on as a guest in her hotel room. (Like the Hotel really cares who you bring up to your room, they are just worried about getting paid). I, being the Master BS-er there is, feign "card trouble" and totally ignore the sites. I even give her this crap stroy that my computer's Anti-virus package comes with a Phishing flter that prevents whole websites to come up.
The scammer doesn't realize that I'm not inputting anything, and in fact I'm just stringing it along. Of course the best way to string the scammer along is to claim the card doesn't work and you have to call customer service.
So I mange to string the scammer on for almost two hours, all the while watching her make grammatical mistakes. I eventually try to trip her up by asking her about her "hometown," which makes her bolt like a smacked colt out of a corral.
What a Maroon...
God I love pulling the wool over the eyes of a scammer, but there's a lesson in this, watch who you talk to, you never know who might be setting you up for a fall.
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I sit here, writing this as the vocals from "The Time Warp" emenate from My computer, comfort music if there was ever any, and at the moment, I need it.
To those of you who remember My recent heart trouble, despite My best efforts, the symptoms are returning, andhave gotten worse since My return fromthe Bay Area last weekend. This couldn't have come at a worse time. I was about to return to work with one of My former employers in another capacity, and school is continuing.
Hopefully, the doctor will be able to figure out the cause of the swelling this time, because the medication that reduced it the last time is no longer working. Keep your fingers crossed.
07/06/07 UPDATE: well, it seems they've discovered what's cauing My heart trouble. I'm currently undergoing treatment in a local hospital and from what they can tell, I'm bleeding somewhere internally. The bleeding causes my heart to beat wrong, which tells my kidneys not to flush out the fluids in my system, which causes the swelling. They're narrowing down the spot where I'm bleeding from with a stomach scoping. I will update once I'm back from the procedure later in the morning.
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First, to those who have contacted Me since I changed My photos, thank you, keep those cards and letters coming and as they used to say on MST3K, keep circulating the tapes.
Now on to some major business. A few days ago a name popped up on the roster that was written similar to another user on here, claiming that person was a fake. While I know it wouldn't be long before someone would report the profile, I asked about their allegations.
They claimed they had been duped by this person. I won't go into detail but suffice it to say, some things sounded very familiar to situations that happened with Me. I found out that the person who leveled these allegations is a noted "pest" to some of the other users on here nad has been subsequently deleted from the site.
So despite the rather shaking credibility that accuser had, I decided to stick with the benefit of the doubt and not mention this to the accused, although when told the name of the accuser, they claimed not to know the individual.
Long story short, this person was supposed to meet me today, and they were supposed to call before they were leaving where they were to meet me. That person never made that call. No meeting. no messages here on elsewhere that can reach Me.
Therefore, I'm done with them, I'm tired of the games, tired of the run around. At least I'm thankful they weren't asking for a "Tribute" out of Me. when they try to mesage Me come monday with another lame excuse, they're going to get a rather rude surprise of them being blocked.
I'm moving on, I know of at least a half-dozen others on here who are not only interested but are willing to meet me and actually show up or have the decency to call if they're going to be late.
But to that person, if you're reading this, I'm through being a fool.
UPDATE: (4/24/07) Today, the "Boss" of the person mentioned above contacted Me to tell Me that she left for a week in Colorado. More lies from most likely the real source. So I told Him I was done with "her" I doubt I wll hear from her again, but if any site administrators are interested in this person's identity, I will gladly provide it to you and let you deal with them... |
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Something new for Me. No doubt those of you who passed My profile before have noticed a couple of changes. Gone was My rather futile attempt to emulate Tom Selleck's smirk from the opening titles to "Magnum P.I." in favor of a "happier" photo.
I know I am not able to point out specifically the person who suggested the change to My photo, but I can say that she was right and I've seen an immediate change from some people here. Thank you, My dear friend. |
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First an update from the last entry. Since I placed that I discovered I was suffering from a rather nasty heart problem. It's been corrected now but it was the cause for the majority of the physical problems I was dealing with.
Now then onto some other matters. Lately, I've had some very interesting conversations with a few others on here, proving that there are a few dominants who take the time to read and make a effort to not come off like a muscle-headed bully. Those of you who are still getting blocked because the "on your knees" opening lines, try treating those you are contacting like a human being first. You'd be surprised at how well that works.
Another thing, despite My efforts, I've noticed that some of My opening messages are getting deleted without being read. I have no problem with that per se, that's the woman's perrogative to decide to talk to Me or not. When I do message someone I put them on My favorites list, until they tell me they are not interested, they annouced they've decided to serve another or they just don't answer.
It sure beats constantly messaging them over and over and over then getting blocked. So once they stop being interested, off they go and I don't give them another thought. That's another tip to ponder for the wannabes out there. Just let it go and stop dwelling. |
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It's been a while since I updated My profile and with a number of changes occuring with some of the people I know on here, as well as a few changes that are occuring work-wise, I am considering taking a break from here. I have considerable contact with a few on here that I no longer have to meet up here to talk to.
However, I am not feeling the connections I used to when I used to be on more often. It will all depend on how things go in the next month or so. |
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Time for another rant against another aspect of the site that is starting to rankle(?) My hide.
It seems every day, I am noticing more and more slavesx posting they want a cruel Master to break them and own them completely, yetr not more than a day later, that profile is gone from the site almost as soon as it's put up/
Look, if the mail you get as a result of auch a post either scares you or excites you, at least have the courtesy to at least put a post up saying that you are overwhelmed or you've found someone and you're closing down your account.
To quote a certain cartoon superhero, "You knew the job was dangerous when you took it..." If you can't stand the cruelty, don't ask for it. |
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Rare is the Dominant who freely admits to making a mistake, normally One must ignore or overlook "collateral damage" that may be caused in the course of One's actions. BUt I must take personal responsibility for My own error.
Earlier this week, I met someone here who is currently going through a personal crisis. I reached out to offer some emotional support, but somehow I unnerved her to the point where she no longer wants My attention. The irony is that I didn't think I had come on that strong, but I now realized that I made one mistake unconsciously and I must now pay for it.
To this person, I apologize. I did not take into acccount your current emotional state in terms of how you would react to talking to Me. I made that offer because I knew you were hurt over what had been said to you, and not knowing the other factors that played into what transpired today, I never meant it to escalate o the point it did, and for that I am truly sorry.
You didn't deserve to feel that way, and I hope you will find the courage to allow Me in again. |
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I've been doing some thinking about some of the profiles on here. I don't want to seem like I am resentful of those who are already collared by Someone, but with an increasing number of subs looking for another sister to serve their Master, I've decided to start placing those into the hidden category.
Don't be upset or feel insulted by My move. It's not a bad reflection on you, but if I am to find the sub or slave that is worthy of serving Me, I need to streamline the pool of potentials. Consider it a compliment and a sign of respect that you won't be bothered by a stupid message from Me since you aren't in the market for another Master or Dominant. |
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This morning, the following message appeared in my box, from a young sub whom I befriended. In the last couple of months she found whom she thought would be the man she could call Master, but he turned out to be only interested in using her physically.
This is goodbye i'm afraid. I'll say the horrible thing that's always said after goodbyes, it's been fun. There are too many snakes on this sight, and everyone's words feel like poison. I am no longer able to trust, and trust is the main key here. So i'm leaving. Thanks for everything.
Obviously, I am saddened to see her leave, but I'm angry that there are still so many trolls and wannabes who have no regard for the effect they have on these innocent subs who want to learn but get nothing but disillusionment and self-loathing.
To you who have no regard for anyone but yourself, you should be ashamed of yourselves. You give this lifestyle the bad reputation it has amongst the vanillas.
Look what you've done, I hope you're happy now... |
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Apparently, there was a wannabe who spoke to a number of Doms, Myself included, claiming to want to learn to be more slutty. If you know who she is, you also know she has "revealed" her tue intentions and frankly it's pissed me off.
It's one thing to joke around and not be serious, but then to turn around and be this callous to Others.
You know who you are, and I hope you had your little fun, because next time. That report button can be used then |
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I have noticed a number of profiles have started to disappear, especially ones who seemed to have become overwhelmed with the number of messages they received from the fakes, wannabes and players in here.
It really sucks to see them leave, especially when they have such potential. |
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I find it interesting that when the needs of the "vanilla" world force You away from being online at all times of the day and night, people who message you and expect an immediate response seem to get very easily offended when you don't answer them right away.
I am not ciriticizing anyone in particular here, I would not wish to offend anyone, but the nature of My current job forces Me to be available to report to work at a moment's notice. As a result, I cannot answer mail as fast as I would like.
As a result of this, I was recently called pathetic because I did not respond back to a message I recieved before getting called into work. It ended up being a 24-hour shift I was called into and I was not able to get back on for a day and a half, which by then came a rather insulting response.
And to top off the insult, rather than giving Me the opportunity to defend Myself, I was blocked from further contact. If it is not too much to ask, I would advise everyone to give a person the chance to defend themselves before blocking them...
Live and learn |
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I have not often been a proponent of being cruel and sadistic, but because of a personal betrayal, I am now starting to consider that their may be some merit to deriving pleasure from another's pain...
It is worth considering, but if I travel down this dark path, forever will it alter My destiny.
I must tread carefully...
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