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I want to say thank you for reading this ad, it is worth your time to read it thoroughly and not just skim. I put a lot of time and effort into this ad for your viewing pleasure and it goes in depth into what I am looking for. By doing this, my ad allows you, by the end of reading it, to make a very well informed decision on if I am a fit in your life. If I would be a fit for you and you for me, then please send me a thoughtful email. I can ensure you plenty of excitement or at least good conversation as we get to know each other. I tend to be an in-person type of man, so if I ask you out on a date please assured I am looking for convo and chemistry not a hookup. I am wishing to find someone forever minded.
***Personality Info***
I think the first thing I should say is that I believe in love. I have experienced it, I have it and I have lots to give. I am not a fan of the cynical view on love, we have all been hurt and have our own experiences but I choose to keep an open mind and an open heart, hopefully you do too.
I am a huge fan of honesty. Keeping things honest and setting clear expectations helps create success and trust. Honesty can hurt, but I would rather be hurt by honesty than lied to and made to feel something that was untrue.
I am driven by success. I am motivated in my career and education. I am working on an MBA now and hold a couple Bachelors. I have been kind of toying with where to go career wise because I have so many options, but that is a beautiful problem to have.
I believe in giving back. I am a part of a larger community and believe in helping out. Locally I am helping with an adopt-a-family drive. I have participated in a few auctions to raise money and sometimes I just volunteer for the hell of it.
I am a committed person when it comes to relationships. I may date a few women off and on, but when I decide on someone I give them the attention and respect they deserve. I commit to their happiness and success as well as their wellbeing. The relationships do not always work out and nothing is perfect but the honest effort is there.
I do what I say and rarely ever sway. I am not perfect but if I tell you I will make the sky green for you, you better believe when you wake up tomorrow the sky will be green, or I will have gone to the end of creation to try to make it so.
I am a leader. All personality test (I did a few for recruiters in college) will tell you I am a leader. I am direct, to the point and enjoy… no I encourage change.
If you break my trust, you are out of my life.
*** Activity info***
I am a nerd! I love games of all kinds: Board, card, dice, video, tabletop, party and just about any other kind of game. I like the friendly competition and the quality time spent with loved ones and or friends, heck even strangers! I host a game night once a month.
I travel! I love travelling roads trips (3 this year, short but fun), have been to Japan a couple times, Mexico and 2014 is Ecuador!
I enjoy learning. I soak information in like a sponge and if you have something new to teach me, I am practically at your hip until you show me… LOL
Movie buff!!! I can quote more movie lines then I have friends. Especially indie flicks, international flicks and movies that have been banned in “Murica. Horror movies? HELL YES. Not very big into TV but I follow a few good shows: SOA, Walking Dead, House of Cards and a few comedies: Tosh.O and Southpark. Kind of liking the Michael J. Fox show and the one with the guy from Will and Grace.
Music fanatic! I love music, it is a life force the flows through me. I used to make beats using FL Studio 8 and upload them to soundclick? I do not remember it was a long time ago. I am an avid Hip-hop enthusiast and for a nerdy white guy I probably no more about hip-hop, up and coming artists and battles than most rappers themselves. Also a fan of other types: Classic rock, 90’s grunge, 90’s country, classical, old school, and showroom like Michael Buble. Music is amazing.
*** Lifestyle***
I do not want more kids. If you have a child that is one thing, but no more children shall come from me as I have made that impossible.
I am kinky. I am involved in the kink community, I am Director of MAsT: Maricopa and Co-Director of MDHL: Phoenix. I host a meeting once a month at my house for those involved with a specific portion of the lifestyle. I am also poly but closed poly. Meaning I am looking for a female to join my house permanently and I am not into “open” relationships. This would eventually be a 2 female and 2 male house. I am not single and have a submissive living with me who not only knows everything going on but is 100% supportive.
I believe in lifestyle development and have attended Butchmanns, several classes and next year my schedule is jam-packed: Sin in the City, Butchmanns again and BOLD 2014.
*** What is in it for you***
Safety: My home is a safe place for growth and allowing your walls (if any) to come down.
Security: I am not going anywhere and my house is not going anywhere.
Love and companionship: Notice this was not a sexual advertisement? Even though you by now understand I am clearly a very sexual person and life a “distyle, I am not looking for a hookup I am looking for someone to love and cherish.
Spontaneity: Those road trips… 2 of the 3 were spur of the moment ideas where I called into work and we took off. You never know when I will do the next thing to sweep you off your feet!
Respect: I will respect you, your time, your heart and your humanity. I may be brutally honest at times but in my mind that is a respectful act.
Surprises: I love giving flowers and gifts. Even a nice surprise outing or meal. Spice it up!
Sex: I am a very sexual person with women I am involved with and I believe in everything from wholesome romantic sex to the, “FUCK THIS I CAN’T GET ENOUGH OF YOU, RIP YOUR CLOTHES OFF” stuff. I have a lot of toys and enjoy making my woman climbs the walls with pleasure!
Romance: Life with a partner should make you feel warm and fuzzy most times. Romance is a big part of that for me.
Time: I believe in making time for the one(s) you love. Period.
Communication: I am very clear when I am hurt or upset, I am clear with expressing my feelings and there is never a guessing game.
Consistency: I am very consistent and reliable with expectations. I am not going to make drastic changes on you one morning and leave you going “WTF happened”?
Humor and fun: I am very humorous and use my jokes/laughter to break barriers. I enjoy amusement parks and micro adventures out and about. You won’t get bored in this house.
What did the Buffalo tell his kid when he dropped him off for school? Bison!
So hopefully you are done and enjoyed the read. Hopefully you have an open mind for exploring new things or I sound amazing enough for you to at least talk to. Send me an email and lets see where the path takes us. |
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A poem I wrote called "Energy" - It is how I imagine love to feel when with a sub/salve who gets me.
I can feel it,
So can you,
The pull,
The heat,
It burns between our guts, but its a cold knife when we are apart,
the synergies of our closeness allows a greater state of being.
I can see it,
so can you,
The light,
The connection,
Its a blue coil of electricity that reaches from my soul to yours,
Ever in motion bringing together our oneness in all things.
I can smell it,
So can you,
The sweat,
The pheromones,
It streams off of us when we are together the signal of our submission,
to the rawness of the divine that has our very being shaken.
I can hear it,
So can you,
The humming,
The power,
It buzzes between us when we lock eyes unbridled and unabashed,
The world sinks around us and the power fills our core to satiation.
I can taste it,
So can you,
The salty,
The energy.
The salt makes us thirst for more and when we drink from this energy,
We are only left wanting more and thus our endless draw. |
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