MadameShy

I am going to mention these things 

I do not put out on the first date .. second or third .. I don't even know if I will put out ..till I have connected with someone ... 

I am not a easy Collar .. infact I am damn difficult .. and picky .. its not looks im picky about 

i'm picky about 

if you are mindful of what you say ..

have a sense of humor .

are clean

polite 

Learn .. how well and easy you train 

if you like to learn every day

realize its all My way [hard limits taken into consideration]

and I take my time getting to know you I think this is best for both of U/us 

do you have the stuff? I doubt it .. prove me wrong~!

There is a lot of talk about 

 SSC =Safe Sane Consensual

 RACK= Risk Aware Consensual Kink

or

PRICK= Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink 

for all who will read this 

I do not follow SSC 

I am not sure anyone could say smacking someone with a flogger and them liking it is .. Sane..

Least to the vanilla world .. and Sanity is overrated.. honest 

I do Follow RACK .. for I am very Risk aware and Safe Minded 

BUT I really follow 

PRICK .. because I take responsibility for who I play with and Myself in Consensual Kink at all times I do not like Breaking my toys ..

{{PRICK was invented By Danny of .. Leather By Danny}}

He/she is just not into you if:

1. He takes more than two days to get back to you. We make time for people we like, especially at first. When we were young, and we liked someone, we made sure they didn't get away. Anyone who takes more than a day to talk to you can say he is 'busy" all he wants, but he is not that into you. Just saying.

2. They don't respond directly to acts of affection or compliments. For instance, you say, "Wow, loved your profile! Want to chat?" Their reply, if they give one at all? "Sure, I guess. " No, "Hey, would love that!" or, "I saw yours, too, and I like it, as well!" You say, "Your pics are nice!" They say, "Aww, thanks!" and...nothing...else...Not that into you. LOL.

3. They end conversations in the middle without saying goodbye, then you see them minutes later posted on FL as though you never existed.

4. If you are a woman, you contact them to hookup, and they don't even respond. Believe it or not, it HAS happened to a sub friend of mine.

5. They have over a hundred friends, and most of them are from at least 500 miles away. Attention whores, maybe, but probably not serious.

6. They convince you they are interested, but continue to "like" pics of cocks/tits from others. When they could be talking to you, and they aren't.

7. They always seem to be busy, or lose their cellphone, so that's that why they haven't talked to you in a week. I had one sub lose her cellphone, had it shut off, had it died, etc...all in a three week period. I called her on it, and she, guess what? Disappeared...lol

8. They meet you, but never, at any point, mention that they are interested beyond that evening. Not even in parting.

9. They meet you, and don't even ask you to walk them to their car, or don't offer to.

10. Sure, they talk to you. If you email them, they give one sentence responses. "How are you?" "Fine, and you?" Not really into you. LOL.

this was written by someone in another site but it makes true reading and 

Never Make Someone a Priority that Makes You a Option 

ADDITION TO THE PROFILE 

IF YOU WANT TO SERVE ME  YOU MUST LOVE ANIMALS, ALL KINDS OF CREATURES 

I run a small animal rescue in my house there are a few handicap and sick ones here that take special care, from cancer to loss of limbs to chronic upper respiratory 

I am a sadist BUT believe that all creatures should be allowed to live there life as long as there happy and not suffering ... some creatures come to my house to live there last months years days .. how long it takes for them to find there rainbow bridge and I make sure there spoiled rotten till they go ...

I want a Animal lover as a sub/slave .. one that isn't afraid of them .. squeamish of a lizard eating a insect .. or a lovable ferret cuddling up to you now and again .. I know there has to be a sub that would find it fascinating to be part of a household thats extrememly humane and sadistic in the same day .

again Have a Photo on your profile OR send one with your email or be ignored

Madame

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I just want to put my 5 cents in here ..

since its my journal I can so I will 

RANT WARNING!!

Kink is a wide range of likes and dislikes

just because YOUR kink isnt MY kink doesnt mean its bad... I dont have to like sissy men .. cross dressers .. BiSexual for a Match

IT does NOT mean that I think its bad to like those things it just means I dont like those things and NO one absolutely NO one has to do things they dont like .. we are adults and if you dont like punishment and pain .. you won't like me I love making others welt and sometimes bleed ..[not thru knife play or cutting a bleeding welt is so special] im a Sadist .. cruel but I dont like humiliation .. nor do I smoke .. Im Fat .. I'm Cute just don't call me a BBW ..

I know im fat dont have to message me to tell me .. LOL got to love those Emails they make me laugh .. like DUH!

I don't want my fat worshipped .. I want to be worshipped if I happen to loose the weight I still want to be worshipped


I have a live in .. NO you will not be serving him he will NOT be ordering you around.. but he is My Live in i've been with him for Years don't plan on getting rid of him have NO mistake I AM in Charge..

dont play games I'll find out and Thats when I'm really pissed trust me like the Hulk YOU do NOT want to see me pissed!

if I cry its not because im weak its because I"M Human and I get hurt being Dominate does not mean im less Human.

Now .. with people that LIKE to travel .. when I find my perfect Domestic slave .. I want him to live close I do not do long distance even if you like to travel at some point the traveling should change to relocate closer to me..

if you have children sorry no go .. they take up your time and I agree they should but I want your time  so i'll pass on single fathers or fathers with children on weekends

have a wife .. she has to know your serving me
I Will talk to her to make sure she knows...

girlfriend same thing .. NO secrets here face it .. I dont think it will work I want this to be more than just a slave in the future

I will not drag you out on a collar and leash in public  unless its something you like .. I have no care i'll lead you around in a collar and leash if you wish.. i'm not openly sexual .. infact .. till we get to know eachother There will be NO sex ..

if it happens it happens .. we all need to get to know eachother and have a connection before ..

I now am taking applications for Domestic slave.. Please write more than one line and tell me why you think you are a good domestic slave and why I would want you and a bit about yourself and what you wish..

so Write to me and lets get started with the email process and maybe the coffee meet

I live ON cape cod .. even though I think a cape codder would be ideal .. I am open to a traveling slave to start and maybe you can relocate in future..just remember I do not do over nights so you must find your own place to bed down while here ..

when you apply please state  what makes me want you as my slave .. what can you do for me .. where you live and a vanilla picture attached ..if one is not in your profile in the first place 

if you dont have these in your email i'll most likely just ditch it and not reply ..

don't want to hear how you dont want to send picture here .. but will in regular email .. I'm not giveing my reg email till we have met .. so that won't work I like collarme I like anon for the  inital talks ..

now if you read all this and still think you want to write .. please do so

Madame Shy

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