DeviantIdeas


	deviant		deviant7		deviant90

		Back		KPM		Interests

Friends:



	Fairly new to this type of lifestyle, so please excuse me if I do not understand some things or ask what may be remedial questions. I'm interested in meeting femdomme's/switches/subs in the San Antonio/hill country areas. I'm officially divorced as of October 2010 after a grueling two years and I am not seeking a vanilla type relationship at this time. If that happens, it happens, actively pursuing it, no I am not. I have things that I need to handle and explore while hopefully making new friends along the way. This side of me has been dormant for far too long and I have a sincere desire of exploring and living it. ? Please have at least an attractive and responsive personality. I'll converse with anyone about anything but if it isn't there, it isn't there. No sense in wasting time. I'm not shy and curious about a multitude of things both in and out of the lifestyle. I'm an artistic, creative, sarcastic, playful, handyman, redneckish, father of one. I'm always cordial and a gentleman, but blunt to a fault, regardless of whatever role or situation I may be in. I appreciate a strong, my age or older woman, regardless of role. ? Also, outside of chatting, I will not engage in real time with or go beyond certain boundaries with someone who is not at least 25 years old. Yes, I may view your profile because of your journal entry or your profile picture may be interesting to me. I do appreciate the female form and well taken pictures or good media pieces. However, it's my belief you have not gone through the multitude of life's lessons until at least this age.? But again, there's always the exception to the rule. ? I'm interested in erotica media. Not so much written erotica, even though I do enjoy a good read on a variety of topics. I have ideas that I have conceptualize and will eventually put them in either art or photography form. This is probably due to the fact that I am artistic by nature. I can draw sculpt and paint but do not do it as often as I should. I do have an exhibitionistic side to me. I do like to show and perform if I feel a connection or understanding with whom ever I correspond with. ? I enjoy the psychology aspect of this lin wonder and fantasize about using a Pavlov technique for remote or distant persons. As in: picking a particular, inconspicuous ring or text alert for your phone. Then condition you to respond in a manner that I choose. A training of sorts and it would perhaps be completely random but at my desire. To have the psychology aspect, though, the sensuality is sure to be much more intense in those special moments where the realization of Dominance and submissiveness are birthed and exchanged. ? I have recently come under mentorship and protection of MadameShy. To me, Madame is a confidant, tutor, outlet and most of all, my friend on the East Coast. I refer to her often for guidance and direction. We have our understanding and established rules. Anyone may contact her regarding me and regarding anything. I have interests that she does not have interests in but we have a connection of trust which leads to an ebb and flow of things. True friends are hard to come by in this lifestyle without bringing undue speculation or persecution. I do consider myself fortunate to have a few and especially Madame. Yes, ownership may get passed but I have more interest in being a Dom at this point. ? I do have to mention this.... Findommes, pros, etc., etc.... it's not that I do not appreciate your situation or what you do. Rock on with your bad self, actually. I have responsibilities outside of this lifestyle that I must be considerate of. Besides that, I desire connectivity. How is that achieved in a 'session'? ? My list of love/likes/dislikes/limits are fairly non-negotiable. I've either done it and like it or done it and just do not have enough confidence in one in general to allow that to happen. I want an enduring relationship. Please keep in mind that some of these will eventually have to come into play. Best of luck to all.

I'm surprised this is still here.

Looking. Really looking. Dynamics matter. Local-ish only. Need and desire a bond.

Who's down for some play?

Nice night last night. Met and chatted with someone into the lifestyle at karaoke of all places. Completely random but cool. Nothing will come of it, probably, but nice none the less.

Seems to be a lot of butt hurt being doled out today. Ha ha ha.

Mommys are coolest... happy mothers day ya'll!

Humidity, heat and boredom creates some lurid thoughts.

Got to do one of my favorite things last night and this morning.

I didn't realize high school was in session on Saturdays, hahaha.

Wow. Past couple of days the posts are just full of compelling monologue. Examples: 'Bills are due, whose paying what losers','I feel the need to go shopping. Contact me for my amazon info.'' My phone just got cut off. Who's getting it back on, huh, lil piggies?' I'm can't express how over joyed I am in such transparent times. Hell, who cares about connectivity. Let me just throw my worth away and pay for inability. I'm so frickin down for that. Sorry, jus had an epiphany.... had to get it out.

Hmm.. I would believe most people have access to a 'spell checker' by now. That and I heard thesaurus' are still printed.

I find it curious that versus vanilla and regardless of orientation, fake, flake, intended and detached... that in this lifestyle, common courtesy is much more afforded and offered. Just a comparable note.

Yup... that natural feeling in the gut has proven trustworthy again.

Random message: Sender: "Why is it you men seem to always put a pic of their penis on their profiles?" Me "Guess the same reason a lot of women seem to believe that multiple pics of their feet and nothing else reveals how they look." The sender had 5 pics of her feet, nothing else, in her photos. Ahh, nothing like a wisecrack response to get the day going. Good Sunday to all.

What a boring, rainy day.

Some of the humorous things I've encountered on this site:

Must have a pic to contact me. (Yet there are no pics, an obvious copied pic or all those nice, pretty sunset type pics on their profile.)

Must have a grasp on proper grammar. (Visit their site and it's chock full of text speak, typos, mispellings, etc., etc.)

No copy and paste messages. (Their journal is full of pasted links, one time moments of intelligence, etc., etc. Sometimes it's in the profile description itself.)

At least people can do is send a simple no thanks, thank you or whatever other form of cordial correspondence. (Yet you send them a message commenting on such post or something in the profile description, we all know when people read our messages, but there is no return reply.)

Just a few of the giggle moments I have continously seen. Just saying is all because I'm bored.

Mmm... bold coffee, how I've missed you.

Seen on a storefront today "Red Velvet Cream Pies 99 cents"

Simple tasks reveal simple truths.

Calling Giants today.

Four days.

I find it curious when you use an ingredient when cooking and there just so happens to be a party present that does not care for said ingredient, and they exclaim how much they like the dish. You realize, oops, shouldn't have used that to yourself but find humor in it at the same time. If they only knew.

Revamped.

That urge to bind something is creeping up again.

Merry Xmas, ya'll.

Scraping ceilings sucks.

redneckdeviant @ the y... cam

Happy Turkey Day, ya'll.

Is worn. Good day today, though. Moving and such.

Feeling really sub-ish today. Want to exhibit, I haven't in a while. It's so bad I almost cannot walk with out it being too sensitive.

Beautiful day in south Texas today. Need something to do though.... hmmm?

Maybe a video, maybe some new pics, maybe cam tonight...... I is bored, we shall see what comes of this evening. Happy Halloween to all.

Needs a nice rear to whip, dammit.

I think a revamp of profile is in order.

Was going to add some new and remove some old pics but apparently the site is having issues..... loses connection every time I try to save changes. Oh well, another day perhaps.

Is it me or is this site, over the past few weeks, turning into a hooker swap meet?

Thinking today is a good day to plug and milk.

Hot and bored but may be fortunate later on today.

Regardless of monicker or deviation, bottom line is all are looking for that proverbial home.

Hot day... working the 'bother' a little harder.

Extremely boring day at work today.

Free this weekend. Looking for a rookie friendly femme Domme to use me. Open minded to some things. Looking for RT not online and central Texas only.

Off to Bandera, ya'll.

I prefer my flakes frosted. Better sweet than plain.

Thinking river this four day weekend. New Braunfels or Bandera area for sure is in the plans. Working some new pics, also. Hope to have them up soon.

Walls of text n writings n txt type brns my i's. Ppl, plz, wtf Wearn sum gwamma..

Bullocks! Lost a pic... grumble.

Beautiful day in San Antonio. Perhaps a trip to the river is in order. Brew and q.

Gorgeous day in SATX for play.

Birthday us Monday... oh, joyous times. Maybe I'll get lucky and be abused.

Boring and breezy day.

It seems that simplest exchanges can be taken in the wrong way regardless of how well placed intentions are. Patience will have to pay off because my curiousity for all the different facets is continually strong. It hopefully will only be a matter of time to be selected to be a sub; a full on session is desired. How else is one to know their particular role if both sides are not explored.

Good day to all.

Free tomorrow... would like my ass trained. Hoping for long term.

Will be free this Friday. No fluff.

Happy 2011! My exploration continues and am pleased with my progress.

The bondage aspect is really enitcing. I must find a willing sub who matches my criteria to explore this on.

I've met some interesting and helpful people so far. Hopefully, this will be a broadening to my horizons. I have given some thought to the Dom side of me and will update my profile soon to reflect that.

DevilishSu	Devilinblu	devinlupus
devotestud	devilindur	DevilishCa
devilmadem	devineMiss	devilishde