Liannan

I’ve been lurking in the
forums for a little while and browsing profiles to get an idea of how it’s
done. I am looking for a sub/slave (In
your first email, please tell me what whichever term you use for yourself means
to you.) for eventual full time/live-in.

I would prefer a local sub
but sometimes, we can’t have what we want immediately. So, first thing I’m looking for is someone
willing to relocate to this are within 4 to 6 months of first meeting and hopefully,
regular meetings between times before you move. I do not want someone that I don’t know well to just move into my house
but as far as living options go…I can help you locate a traditional apartment
in the area with flexible lease terms, or if the sub is good with equines I
know a person who would allow them to use the apartment above the barn in
exchange for stable chores and exercise riding, or if they are willing to
accept a smaller space (only about 700sqft) the efficiency above my garage is
just recently finished and will be furnished by the time we would get to that
point.

Please have no young
unmentionables (isn’t that the term I’ve seen used on the boards?) and if you
are married, your spouse needs to be aware of your activities and willing to
get to know me. I don’t expect her to be
my best friend but going out/staying in for dinner and having a truthful
discussion needs to be possible. If you
are married, I expect that in my first phone conversation with you, your wife
will be present and either on 3-way or on another phone of the same line.

Those non-negotiable bits
out of the way, a bit about us: I’m
getting older but I am not old. I am
active and what many of my message boards would term “crunchy” in that I eat
primarily organic fresh food, minimize the amount of preservatives I allow in
my system, and eat very little meat. I
enjoy cooking on the grill, training my dogs, and finding interesting little
shops. I think the Renaissance Faire is
a valid way to spend a day and have a fascination with Greyhounds though I have
never owned one.

My female sub (age 32) and I
have been together for a bit over three years but she has only been living with
me since my unmentionable moved out 2 years ago. She does not work anymore and has become the
regular domestic goddess since she quit working. I’m impressed that she even ventured into
making pickles and fresh jam this year. I
also sometimes have a part-time male bottom (age 42) that I’ve known for around
15 years and play with frequently with the permission of his wife who is not
interested.

In the interest of fair
warning: My spelling is bad unless I type things out in Word first. I am short (which is mostly just a good
excuse for high heels) and can’t seem to lose that last 5 or 10 pounds. Given my age, I probably won’t. I’m not worried about it because my BMI is
fine and I’m very healthy but I know some people probably care. My work hours are erratic and unpredictable
because I’m a midwife in private practice and my patients are not always able
to stick to normal business hours. My
cell phone is always on and I really can’t be unavailable. I wear my glasses more frequently than my
contacts. My unmentionable tells me that
I have joined her in geekiness since I have gotten interested in tabletop role playing
(like D&D) and over the summer officially participated in my first LARP. (I wonder if anyone has used those with all adults
with a more kinky tone than the one I participated in…)

What I’m looking for:

Relocation to Dauphin County, PA within a reasonable time frame (see above)

Interested in progressing to
full-time/live-in. I don’t want to start
that way because I believe it’s impractical but I intend to progress to that
point and am not looking for casual play partners.

Taller than I am (not very
difficult) and willing to allow me to make non-permanent appearance changes
such as hair color and the choosing of clothing. I like to make these changes just because I
can and sometimes on a random whim.

Age is unimportant but there
are a few things I’m looking for. If you
are young or very new, you must be mature. I have an unmentionable that is moved out and I don’t want another one
to move in. If you’re only a few years
older than she is, I would hope that you act more mature. If you’re older or even just my age, I want
reassurances that you are in general good health and see your doc regularly.

Not claustrophobic. I really like cages and confinement so I don’t
want to run up against an issue.

Willing to discuss any issues
that may pertain to play and all other issues (in other words, don’t hide things
from me unless you didn’t know the issue existed in the first place).

Willing to try new things
(in scene and out) as I learn new things and I can’t resist learning.

For scening, I have a
variety of interests (don’t we all) and am hoping to find someone between my “please
don’t hurt me” girl and my “I’ll do anything if you’ll just hurt me” part time
boy.