Let me update everyone ... I have finally finished moving from New Mexico where I have been living for the last 9 years to Northern Virginia. It is simply time for a change of scenery. I am going home. Not back home, just home. I am sure some will be wishing I was staying here (in New Mexico) ... hopefully many will wish me well and just be happy for me. Once I am completely settled I will be back on here more frequently ... several times a day, even several times an hour if I can find anyone and anything that snags my attention.
:: smiles happily :: Until then ... read on MacDuff.
In the past I have been many things ... Student, friend, adviser, lover, partner, wife, mother, parent, role player, adversary, enemy, confidant, teacher, trainer, submissive and dominant. Today I embrace being a survivor and an independent Woman. I am looking for permanent people to join My current relationship. I will not qualify the type of relationship I am looking for by simply saying "24/7/live-in". My definition of 'permanent' is not necessarily what yours may be ... 'temporary' on a reoccurring basis, over an extended period of time, is a 'permanent' style of relationship.
Be sure to take special pains to not only read My profile and get hung up on the photos. Look over all the interests as well. So, before you click to send Me any message, make sure you have looked everything up and over first! Understand that the interests that are checked off are for things that have been tried, liked, disliked, been tried out on all in the home and done to those in the home. They are not exclusives - or solitary diet material. They are things that are spices, desires and in some cases needs. But they go
both ways, giving
and receiving.
I am looking for a relationship that is first planted and nourished on-line ... then allow it to progress to a blossoming partnership in the real world. I do not want someone or something that is not real. If you are in the "lifestyle" and are looking for someone and something new, out of the 'normal' box ... look Me up. Contacting Me in the manner of 'teen' or 'text' speak will get you nothing. No return message or interaction at all. Use a dictionary
AND spell-check before messaging Me. Any messages that are more like a 'one liner' or a come-on ... are not wanted, tolerated or accepted. Add a N A M E to the message. If you are only willing to use your site ID or no name at all, you are going to miss out on the experience that is ME!! There is nothing wrong with using an just your initial, pen-name, nickname or what have you. To me, there is something very fundamental and critical missing when you do not or will not identify yourself to Me beyond your site ID. I am NOT looking for someone that
removed or
invisible. That is what hoods, masks and costumes are for!
Friends, lovers, sub/slaves, and people in general need be someone with a sense of humor and spirit about them! Do not forget it takes personal personality too. Specifically all sub/slaves need to be flexible, willing and eager ... not solely in a sexual manner. It would be a definite plus if you are also, how shall I put it, Hetero-flexible! It is not a requirement, but it is a plus. If you are a sub/slave I decide to take on, be prepared to register yourself for a sub/slave 'registration number' upon being collared. Let Me make it clear, I am
primarily looking for
females, all new requests from
ALL males will be directed to My
alpha sub. If you do not know what an
alpha sub is, ask. Do not think you might be just be the '
one' male I am looking for ... if only you can
change My mind! Also, if you are just into playing around … please save each of U/us the time and exceptional frustration factor, look elsewhere.
I have just finished moving from New Mexico. The move is what I most needed. Now, I live in Virginia now.
Potentials should be a submissive or a switch, either local or willing and able to relocate with very little to no financial help from Me. No Dominants will be entertained as an addition to O/our relationship. Dominants will be
friends only, nothing more. I am not looking for someone to play with, toy with or abuse! I am searching for someone to join, enrich and compliment My home. Potentials must be able
and willing to share themselves and grow with those in My home. If you think you might be who I am searching for ... contact Me respectfully and W/we will see what is possible.
Do not forget to add your name to the message.My household consists of Myself, various subs and pets (animals and humans alike). It would be helpful if you love or at the very least, like animals. If that is not the case, you must be willing to abide with and tolerate them.
I enjoy reading anything by Laurel K. Hamilton, Joanna Lindsey, and Jacqueline Carey ... as well as many more authors. I'm a romantic with a deep and thriving dark side. I read anything that catches My fancy and holds My attention. From time to time I write short stories, of all varieties, and choose to share them privately and publicly. My mind is wide open, flexible, witty and wicked. I enjoy sharing it with others. In the same breath, I am also a very private person and I revel in My personal time, as well as space. Some might call Me moody and withdrawn, I term Myself as private and secluded. My circle of friends is select and has a low population, by choice. It is not to say that those in My circle are lucky to be there. It is the opposite, I am the lucky one to have found them.
Understand I have faults, limitations and habits - both good ones and bad. I smoke; clove's and menthol's. They make wonder tributes and gifts. I will stop only
when I decide to. If you are a smoker, be aware that you will smoke outside - with extremely rare exceptions will you be permitted to smoke inside. I accept My friends for who and how they are, no reservations. Medications are fine, but drugs are not tolerated ... since weed is now legal in My state, I do not consider it a 'drug' per-sae. If you need drugs, My home is not the right place for you. Ask Me about the test I give to all applicants ... the one that to date only one person has passed. Mistress and Owner of raj (raj2324) slave registration number is 262-253-869