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It's time for an updated profile! Please read all the way through
The Basics (about myself)
a) See sidebar
b) Also, green eyes, 10 piercings, 2 tattoos
c) politically very left (I find that it makes a difference and informs how I play)
d) Queer(Bisexual), Polyamorous, Switch, Femme, Vegetarian (more on this in a minute)
e) child-like (not childish), fun loving, playful, silly, optimistic (mostly), generally happy most of the time.
Queerness:
I've been out as bi since I was 17. In this day and age, that's expanded to be much more pansexual or omnisexual than anything else. That said, I'm not looking to play with individual cisgender males. Girls, Women, couples, and transfolk are much more what I'm interested in at this point in my life.
Polyamory:
I'm poly. I'm in a long-term non-sexual partnership with my best friend. I've also got a long distance relationship that is very important to me. We all fall into the ways of The Ethical Slut. No lying, no cheating, consensually light on the details sometimes. That said, I'm available to hang out, date, and play with folks as desired. The people in my life will know about each other, if not know each other personally.
Switch: (this is the sexy part)
I find that folks sometimes get hung up on labels and roles... I don't know if it's more true in the BDSM community, but certainly I've seen it often enough. Occasionally some folks have tried to negate my positions, suggesting that I must be one way or t'other. Because of that, I feel the need to clarify... this is subject to change, as all things are. ALSO, I like playing with words and labels... I recognize that they're not interchangeable, so I'll try to clarify as I go along.
As a Top (I prefer this to Dom, Master or Mistress) I'm an O-Top. O-Topping is what I like to think of as orgasmic topping. I want to make you cum. I want you to enjoy yourself (and me) sexually in a way that makes us both feel good. I will happily tie you up, tie you down, tease you, kiss you, lick you, nibble on you, fingerbang or hand job you, caress you, attach clamps and/or cups to you, vibrate or dildo you, and maybe spank you. I will not cause physical or emotional harm, humiliate you, and generally will not leave marks upon your flesh.
As a Sub (preferring this to Bottom) I enjoy being teased, occasionally tied up or down, kissed, licked, rubbed, blindfolded, blown, eaten, vibrated, and being held down. I'm not at all into violence, humiliation, or torture.
As a Switch, I want it all. I like changing the roles between Top and Sub constantly... sometimes mid-play. I'm in it so that we (my playmates and myself) can enjoy ourselves sexually, and learn from each other, and generally have a good time.
Femme:
I'm a cisgender male Femme. I sometimes wear makeup. I keep myself shaved (torso, sometimes full body), I occasionally wear skirts and corsets. I love fetish fashion, thongs and sexy underwear, boots, sneakers, genderblending, genderfucking, and "passing". I'm most often a Boi. I am NOT a sissy. There is nothing forced about my Femmeness. Being Femme is not a role, it's part of who I am. At the same time, I'm smart, strong, clever, and in control of myself. As a Femme, I love other Femmes as lovers and sisters. I enjoy the company of Butches both Stone and Soft, Daddies, Mommies, and Bois.
Vegetarian:
Why would my eating habits be listed on a profile about kink, you ask? Well... It's important because it ties into my fetishes. I love rubber, latex, PVC, spandex, neoprene, and natural fibers. I try very hard not to buy or wear leather. This extends to the toys that I have and use. A delicious flogger made from inner-tubes that I've used for teasing and caressing. Cuffs I made myself from recycled non-leather things. Bracelets and collars that come from the hardware store, not of animals. I will play with folks who wear or are into leather, and will tolerate leather cuffs and harnesses, but my preference is for vegetarian, natural, and human-made items.
Leonard, Part 6:
OK, Leonard Part 6 was really just an awful movie with Bill Cosby. Let's not speak of it again. Instead, let me mention who I'd like to meet, and how. I'd like to meet people who are interested in meeting me. Again, mostly women, couples (M/F, F/F, T/F, T/T) and Transfolk. If you're a CD, TV, or single male, I'll most likely politely decline. How would or should we meet? If you're geographically close (Milwaukee, in and around southeastern Wisconsin, NE Illinois, and between Milwaukee and Madison) that would be ideal. I *do* travel occasionally to the east and west coasts for conferences or to see friends, so that is a possibility, but not a guaranty. I'll be checking here for messages and do email quite a bit. I don't use the chat feature ever (but occasionally do use other IM services). Mostly, though, I'd like to meet in real life. I'll meet out for coffee, cocktails, or dinner. From there, if we hit it off and are into each other, it would be great to arrange a playdate and see how it goes.
Whew! This is wordy, but I think it gets the points across. If I'm not the boi for you, no worries. If you think I might be, then please don't hesitate to contact me. I'm shy with initiation online, but respond to most messages sent my way. Yay!!!! (waves hands in the air like Kermit the Frog)
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