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Just a thought on relationships I learned from some wise people.? I think is a good way to look at any relationship and this how I try to live my life - it came up this week so I thought I would share it.
(yes this means my ex called this week, enough said?)
In choosing a relationship with someone you must accept people where they are and who they are.? IE It does no good to ask me to be a singer - it is not who or what I am; or to ask me to be your primary relationship - that is not where I am today.?
If you chose a partner that can not meet your standards then you need to question why you are in a relationship.
Once you have built a relationship three values come into play:
First, do no harm,
Second, support your partner and work to help your partner,
Third, expect the same level of commitment and effort from your partner in the relationship.
If this is not taking place then work to change the relationship as it is unbalanced or if that fails find a relationship that is a better fit.
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I am learning I need to be clear :)
It seems that I need to be clear - if we do not have a relationship then you are not Sir, or Ma'am. Do not treat me as a sub. because until I accept your Domination of me I do not care if you are the most dominant thing on this planet you are just another passanger on this mud ball. If we build a relationship then I will act in accordance with those roles and the titles that go with the relationship.
If this concept is counter to your way of thinking then I am sorry we will not be interacting much. In fact, please treat this as far warning that demanding unearned respect is offensive to me.
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I hate to limit communication as that is the point of this site.? With that said:
?If you randomly say add me to your IM list and we will talk without any reason or other conversation; it will not happen.? Request again you will be blocked.?
Just to state it; I have no interest in finacial slavery; if you do great go date an ATM!
If you do not know what you want from this site and the people you meet here, cool lets explore that!?
If you are going to get mad because you did not get what you did not state as your want / goal.? Well imagine how your partner in the relationship feels; all they got was a headache.
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I have received some feedback that I was not as clear as I could be about my background.? I have a primary relationship with a Domme and she is informed of my actions here.? Now that we have cleared this point up I am still looking for fellow travelers on the journey to see what life has to offer!
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I am thankful,
I have been honestly looking around this site for around a month now and I must say thank you. For all those people who have helped me learn and grow here; thank you for the kindness and taking the time to respond to my posts and messages. I look forward to learning and growing more on this journey and I hope you wish to come along!
Lostpup
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