DoctorSpank

I’m an intelligent, professionally employed dominant who is seeking friends, play partners or more.

What I want is a wonderful friendship with an intelligent, creative, kinky person or people. Such a friend ideally would be a submissive or a switch however I have dominant friends as well. She can and hopefully would want to stand on her own, contribute ideas, have skills in some area of life, and value independence but also enjoy the challenge of interacting with a smart dominant male. I enjoy do-ers. I have some very close friends, a few local, and several at a distance, which, hopefully, she would enjoy getting to know and interacting with in a vanilla and/or kinky way. I’m BBW friendly but that is not a requirement.

I’m in an open marriage to one not in the lifestyle, therefore I am not available for, nor do I want a 24/7 relationship. For a variety of reasons I’ll explain, I don’t have a tremendous amount of time to devote to a relationship, but my goal is enjoy quality time with good people. Due to time restraints as well as existing friendships that I value, a poly person or married person who is interested in expanding her horizons in some fashion might be an ideal person to engage me.

I’ve been interested in lifestyle activities for years, and have been actively involved for about ten years, but in or close to the public scene for about six years. Enjoyment of life is my motivation rather than the philosophy of BDSM or some of the associated sub branches.

I enjoy BDSM play. Particularly, I enjoy utilizing multiple tops in scenes. Special areas of expertise include waxing, impact play, fisting and sensation play.

My vanilla interests include fiction and non-fiction literature, travel, psychology, parapsychology, science, medicine, economics, music, spectator sports and photography.