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Back on here again after almost 5 years, looking for like minded friends and to start a M/s household.
My main profile is on a different site- pics, info all that jazz, same name.
I do have pics I can send on here as well.
am a sadist. I am poly. I am dominant. I am a complex individual with many interests. Creativity comes naturally for me and I am passionate about building and creating things...
About M/s, the dynamic of choice.
What does it mean to be a Master? (Not so fond of titles) It's control of another. To make decisions for us, in our best interests. Its to care for her, just as much as she cares for me. In this relationship, one leads and the other follows. Its about respect, and the epitome of trust. From there everything is built. Some slaves/subs are masochists and love pain, some like to be degraded. None of it would be possible without the strong foundation a lifestyle relationship should be built upon.
Being a Master is hard work. It requires time and energy to learn the way someone else thinks- respect and trust are earned and built upon, instilling submission.
I firmly believe M/s is stronger than any vanilla relationship. Something I've noticed is that American (vanilla) culture has a very disposable attitude. Disposable containers, disposable cars, why not disposable people? People find love, and don't want to put the work required into it (because its hard sometimes) because they can always find someone "better" It seems that in M/s people generally are more disciplined and already know that it requires a lot of hard work to make it work, and then sustain it. Granted a lot of times things don't work out, I guess its knowing what one wants- and finding it, just anything else in life. Compatibility is the keystone on which all else can be built.
*What does it mean to be served? There are many parts to the term "service". There is service on many different levels.
Household service like house keeping, cooking, cleaning, etc. - standard sub/slave duties. There is sexual service, where a sub/slave tends to sexual needs...
Then there is the realm of intimate service. Things like a good massage. One given not out of duty, but of desire to serve. A good home cooked meal. Its one thing to prepare food, its entirely different eating an excellent made home cooked meal. Cuddling, showing affection and all of the emotional things outside the realm of typical "service"
By far the most important part of service is mental. When a sub/slave to adapts her thinking to best please her master. To anticipate his wants needs and desires, without being told or directed to do so.
I want a woman as mentally strong and intelligent as myself. My equal in most things, better than me at some, and not as proficient in others. For some reason I can't respect her if is she isn't. I want someone who can challenge me to better myself and vice versa.
Everything in life either grows or dies- mentally, spiritually and emotionally it should never stop. I want someone to grow with, learn from train and teach. Well I want her to be my equal yet submit to me anyways. Someone I know and understand completely, and someone who knows me in the same sense. Her choice to be mine, my property, is the greatest honor a man can be bestowed. It's like she is saying "You are my everything, claim me as yours and so it shall be. I exist for only for you." Basically, I want to be able to have my cake, and eat it too.
What do I get out of being a Master? The honor of having someone completely dedicated to me, and the responsibility for her. As if that weren't enough, I get a partner, a best friend, a confidant, a servant, a play mate and a person to lead on the journey of life. In short I get everything from a slave and she gets the exact same. |
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Something I've noticed is that American culture has a very
disposable attitude. Disposable containers, disposable cars, why not
disposable people? People find relationships, and don't want to put the work
required into it (because its hard sometimes) because they can always
find someone "better" It seems that in M/s people generally are more
disciplined and already know that it requires a lot of hard work to
make it work, and then sustain it. Granted a lot of times things don't
work out, I guess its knowing what one wants, and finding it, just
anything else in life.
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