Ally’s Thoughts: How Do I Want To Retire?

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Daily writing prompt
How do you want to retire?

Hi friends and readers,

Before I answer how, I better clarify my definition of retirements. I somehow believe that I won’t be fully retired like settling down to the country side and living a sustainable life till my last breath. My idea of retirement is to not be tie down to the conventional standard of work. I want to spend my retirement days by doing minimum work that I’m passionate about.

So, how do I want to retire? Spending at least four hours a day to share my passion and contribute it to society. Then, spend the rest of my time to travel and explore the different culture the world has to offer. I believe deep down, I am quite the adventurous person that is willing to try new adventure.

The only thing that ties me down right now is my current situation and resources. Though I am more than willing if anyone want to offer new opportunities that will help me to retire early!


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Ally’s Thoughts: When We Reach The Inevitable Crossroad

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Hi friends and readers,

How are you? I’ve been thinking a lot and I think I want to share this piece of thought of mine. In hope that I will find clarity if it is relatable to you. Also, in hope to open new opportunities in any way possible.

I feel that my life has reached a point, like a crossroad that I can’t cross yet. I’m standing across a junction where I can see different paths yet I’m clueless as to which one I should take to get to my destination. When I looked back, I saw all the previous roads I took and all the effort to get here. I saw all the things I’ve tried and how I managed to get here. Regardless, it’s either the easiest or the hardest path. Some efforts bear fruit and some are just weeds.

I understand that sometimes we have to go through a lot of trial and error. Not everyone has the privilege of getting things right the first time. I believe what would help would be the support and the information that we all have at the time. I feel I am not well informed on my next destination. I’m not lost but clueless with the options and opportunities that I can get to help me decide. I’ve tried different things yet I don’t feel I’m getting closer to doing the things that would help me to achieve my goals.

At this point, I really know what I want to achieve. However, I still need to have a good base resource to support me and that’s what I’ve been testing this whole time. In order to support in achieving what I want but I feel that I’m not even close. I feel like I’m lacking the right connection and information to proceed.

I’ve been too long standing in this crossroad and I’m starting to get impatient. I want to be on the other side. I do not want to stay here. I need to find the right circle, resources and direction to proceed. In a different perspective, I feel like a game character that is unable to proceed to the next level because I still lack certain prerequisite requirements. I’ve been really patient standing here and trying to get everything done before crossing to the next destination.

I don’t know how to explain the confidence that I have right now. I really feel that there is something missing and I need to get it to reach the next level. I’m also foreseeing the next level will be a destination that I’ve never experienced before. A different world that requires me to give my all to succeed. I feel like a Pokémon ready to evolve.

If you experienced the same or can relate to my situation right now. Do share below. I like to hear some thoughts and insights.


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How hard it is to write a poem?

How hard it is to write a poem?
Oh fairly easy,
A slap on couple of words,
Stack it with a couple of stanzas,
There you have it!

BUT,
It doesn’t make any sense,
It’s jumbled loudly,
Like a grumbling tummy,
Still it is a – poem,

To write a poem is to express,
Like pulling up the stake stuck in your chest,
Not to satisfy their reading eyes,
They are not the one who bleeds,
It’s your wound to tell,

My poems doesn’t need to appeal,
My poems are for me to heal.


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Ally’s Thoughts: What Changed?

Hi friends and readers,

I remember the reason why I started the ‘Ally’s Thoughts’ segment. It’s to share my thoughts on certain issues and sometimes the outlet to rant. Whenever I started to write about something, I feel really excited and energetic. The urge to share about my own discoveries, perspectives and opinions. Especially when it’s related on feelings, emotions, and social issues. I am still excited to share about certain topics that pique my interests in movies though.

I don’t feel like talking about myself too much. Nowadays, I rather listen to others’ story. Most likely because I am embracing my empath side most of the time. Not to mention, the urge to capitalize it while feeling that I am about to embark a journey that I’ve never been before. I feel like I’m on a crossroad deciding on which path I should take.

Whatever it is, I’ll accept. I’ll go through the experience. Figure things out. And live in the present.

If you are experiencing something similar like me, you need someone to listen to you, or you need your own support system. Feel free to reach out to me and figure things together. You don’t have to go through things alone. Two might be a better number.

If you want to build a strong growth mindset, you can get my guidebook here. I’m sure you’re going to have fun doing the exercises.


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Show my love and heart to you

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I don’t know when,
I don’t know how,
I’m not even sure,
Will God even give me the chance,

But if someone love me,
Don’t say they love me,
I just want them,
To show me,

Hug me tightest,
Kiss me all day,
Let’s hold hands,
And stay in bed all day,

I don’t fancy gifts,
Because you’re enough,
I don’t need sweet promises,
Enough you’re being honest,

And will you just let me,
Show my love and heart to you.


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Even if I have to slither and crawl

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Where has this road taken me?
Where did my shadows touched?
Where did I left my footprints?
Did I arrived at the place,
The place that I want to be?

I remember the long winding journey,
In the scorching heat,
And the knee brushing asphalt,
Blood and tears dripping as I walk,
Lost to a confident winning tortoise,

I am nowhere to be found,
I am still going like the long road,
Seeking meaning and soul,
Even if I have to slither and crawl.


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YOUR 7-DAY JOURNEY TO BUILD A STRONG GROWTH MINDSET

Hi friends and readers!

It’s been a year since I started my journey in Life Coaching and got my professional certificate. I noticed that to have a growth mindset is actually a skill that anyone can learn and apply. For that reason, I want to share this guidebook today!

This guidebook includes day-to-day activities for seven days. The activities include self-awareness, embracing challenges, effort over outcome perspective, learning from criticism, being inspired by others, SMART goals, cultivating a positive attitude and a bonus exercise.

Experience the journey to build a strong growth mindset every day and it starts today!

You can download the guidebook for $4.99 here!

I hope you will experience the same, if not better, journey that has helped me to build my strong growth mindset.

Until next time!


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Ally’s Thoughts: Su San Summer’s Corpse Breath EP Is Out!

Hi friends and readers!

Last Thursday, my favorite local artist just dropped a new EP, Summer’s Corpse Breath! I think I’ve shared a lot of posts about Su San in here and trust me, I don’t think it will stop anytime soon! If you are new here, I’ve shared about her previous EP, Under Milk Wood here.

Not to mention, that I went to her performance last March and it was great! She teased the crowd with her new songs which are in the new EP. You can listen to her EP, Summer’s Corpse Breath on Spotify and other available streaming platform.

This EP contains three tracks. SUMMER”S CORPSE BREATH, DIANNE/BETTY, and CRUEL. The track DIANNE/BETTY was released earlier and based on her interviews, the track was inspired by the film, Mulholland Drive, a mystery/ thriller movie. If you’re a fan, do check this song out.

As for my favorite track in this EP would be CRUEL. I somehow like the message and delivery of the lyric and music. Like always, the genre for her music is dark pop, so expect some gritty, blood spilling, and atmospheric madness. I think that’s one of the reason why I keep on listening to her music. There’s this enchanting yet unfamiliar scent to the listeners ears.

Take a leap of faith! I dare you to listen and be a part of this madness. Until next time!


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To be selfish like the brain, the heart and the pen #napowrimo2024

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 5

To be selfish,
Like how the brain does,
Is to write perfectly,
Speckless from errors,
Perfect forms and execution.
Flawless,

To be selfish,
Like how the heart does,
Is to write freely,
Passionate and intense,
Let them feel how it felt,
Thrilling,

To be selfish,
Like how the hand does,
Is to write thoroughly,
To tell everything,
Let everyone knows wholly,
Unapologetic.


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Therapy is a journey to be a better you

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NAPOWRIMO 2024 Day 4

An hour a week,
Vulnerable and weak,
A whole hour to speak,
All truth and no slick,
Trauma hurts like a prick,
Build the present with stones and sticks,
Seize the future, ready the bricks,
Take all the time to heal – no sick,
It is a lifelong journey, you’ll kick –
The old you, without a single trick,
Be the better you without the need to bootlick.


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